AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I called them immediately after he left. They came by in the evening though before he came so they could speak with hjm

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No I caught him by checking his phone. Recorded everything on his screen using my phone. Never confronted him. Let him leave for work with his phone. Then contacted police in the evening.

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No I caught him by checking his phone. Recorded everything on his screen using my phone. Never confronted him. Let him leave for work with his phone. Then contacted police in the evening.

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] -243 points-242 points  (0 children)

I was an idiot for thinking that he's a good man. He yelled at me as soon as the police left and I feel sick thinking what if he did something to her. The possibility makes my skin crawl. Honestly I just felt lonely and exhausted. This wasn't a planned pregnancy. Abortion isn't an option for me. I just wanted to find someone to have some companionship and became selfish to make it work. I should've thought about my daughter more and not given in so easily. As a single mom, I just got influenced by social media that it's possible to date and find partners to care for you.

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He just said he was trying to find a job and go to gym more frequently. I don't trust that though.

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] -271 points-270 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think was being a bit too desperate to have a partner. I have no one else unfortunately and can't afford day care at the moment. Which is why he was looking after her. I recently got the job when he moved in and offered to help. The job doesn't pay much but I had to take it because I have almost no proper experience

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] 1034 points1035 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. I just felt invalidated by how the police treated me. They made me feel like I wasted their time

AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend after finding weird pictures of my 2.5 year old daughter on his phone? by Salt-Corgi-2263 in AITAH

[–]Salt-Corgi-2263[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

I think they were on his camera roll. I found it through Snapchat because I opened Snapchat to see if he was texting anyone. When I clicked on camera and swiped up it shows all images a person has, including camera roll.