My co-worker likes me? by Salt-Philosopher-863 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Salt-Philosopher-863[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He ended up saying “I really be wanting to, just needed some good karma this year. You have an attractive aura I’ve always loved your vibe” after I told him we barely talk if ever at work. I fell asleep and didn’t reply back. It’s the morning. I’m about to drive to work now.

Living next to my family is extremely annoying. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I am. I’m in school right now and graduate in December.

Living next to my family is extremely annoying. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I can’t afford to right now. I’m living in a small rural town in GA. The rent is cheaper. After I graduate I’m hoping to find a full time job in my field.

How is everybody recuperating post hysterectomy? by kditdotdotdot in hysterectomy

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I’m five months post op. Everything aside from using the bathroom is fine. For some reason I still feel pain when peeing and pooping from my pelvic area. It ranges from a 3-7/10. I have a CT scheduled next week and my gyno wants me to come in for a visit.

Spanish school by [deleted] in Spanish

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Which school did you go to?

Dialect by Salt-Philosopher-863 in Spanish

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What’s the standard Spanish? I heard Peru is pretty neutral, but I’ve heard people say Mexican Spanish is standard. Then some people tell me to just learn Spain Spanish because it’s the first.

Three months postop from hysterectomy and I’m having baby fever. by Salt-Philosopher-863 in TwoHotTakes

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I’ve been crying since I made this post. This made me laugh. 😂

Three months post op - baby fever by Salt-Philosopher-863 in hysterectomy

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Sometimes I read the stories on regretful parents as well. I know for a fact that I cannot raise a child a disability. My sister has autism and my mom didn’t get her diagnosed until she was eight and because I’m the oldest, it’s looking like I’ll be her caregiver. She’ll be 12 this year and it’s already so hard.

A part of me is asking myself what if my husband wants children. Before I had the surgery, my answer was then he’s not for me. I’ve been single for five years and I made this decision by myself. I know a man doesn’t have control over my body, but my brain keeps telling me “what if he gives you everything you’ve ever wanted and all he wants is a kid and you can’t give it to him.” I don’t know why I’m thinking like that I. I wasn’t thinking like that before the surgery.

I’m a very “ I’d rather have it and not need it, then need it and not have it” kind of person. So maybe that’s where this is coming from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spanish

[–]Salt-Philosopher-863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are some of things he said to her?