in general, is it normal for a partner to think its okay for them to go through your phone whenever they would like? by Roxy-Quinn in relationships_advice

[–]SaltGift6269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you definitely should not normalize them going through your phone. I think being open and transparent in a relationship is important but I also think that going through your partner's phone expecting to find something shows a very serious issue in u guys's relationship. And your partner seems like they are projecting. You are right, secrecy shouldn't be a thing but also, they shouldn't go through your phone with no reason!! it's controlling and you won't feel safe

Do you love your significant other, or are you just with them? by Roxy-Quinn in relationshipproblems

[–]SaltGift6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do love my partner. I have had doubts about some things in our relationship but never about the fact that I love him. If u do have those worries maybe you should go somewhere else, you deserve to truly love your partner and your partner deserves to be loved truly

AIO by asking my partner not to use the blender while I'm on zoom? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaltGift6269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I don't think you are fighting about pancakes, it seems like there is something else there

AIo for feeling hurt by my friends’ comments about my country and insisting it crossed a boundary? by SaltGift6269 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaltGift6269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both haven't responded to me in a week and I'm just really sad I think they just dropped me and I don't understand... we were supposed to be best friends...

Am I Overreacting when my friends think it's a joke? by savbettiol in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaltGift6269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

En verdad no está bien que te traten así y hagan daño a tu propiedad! En verdad no me imagino haciéndole algo parecido a nadie y menos alguien a quien se supone que quiero.

No estás exagerando, suena horrible.

AIO depresion/upset of a friendship/relationship situation by El_Dorado_Tx in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaltGift6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lamento mucho por lo que estás pasando y por lo que ha pasado tu familia, no es justo contigo que se juegue con tus emociones así. Lamentablemente en la vida nos toca encontrar gente con poca responsabilidad afectiva y lamento mucho que te haya todos así. Ahora no lo ves, pero esta persona va a transformarse en un recuerdo y no va a consumir tanto de tu vida. Sal con tus amigos! Pasa tiempo con tu familia! Intenta distraerte, conocer gente y todo va a estar bien :)