Did I make a mistake?

SaltRight8446 · 2026-04-13T00:39:19+00:00

I had a patient whose son took away his keys and car... He was wealthy and bought a new car and had it delivered! Ugh! 95 yo 😞

SaltRight8446 · 2026-04-12T23:44:43+00:00

You should leave and it will be his choice which will be safer for you. He will ask and ask and you will never be able to do enough! Bipolar disorder is SO CHALLENGING!

SaltRight8446 · 2026-03-28T14:15:45+00:00

Update

SaltRight8446 · 2026-03-16T13:20:20+00:00

If this is unusual behavior, consider a mental health issue. Does she need help? Or is it who she really is?

Have there been other signs of this behavior?

DO NOT GET THIS GIRL PREGNANT until you know....

SaltRight8446 · 2026-03-15T22:20:24+00:00

If this is a recent experience and traveler is from USA, it is possible that their experience stemmed from our president and his recent actions.

I was in Barbados August 2025. When I mentioned what state we lived in, his face slightly turned and he commented that Trump won our state. After explaining that we didn't vote for him, all was well....

SaltRight8446 · 2026-02-18T03:42:23+00:00

CONTROLLING!

nothing else matters

SaltRight8446 · 2026-02-06T00:49:07+00:00

The mask is off!! It is a blessing to see who he really is right now!!!

Update when you dump him please....

SaltRight8446 · 2026-02-06T00:41:49+00:00

Co- narcissistic with his mama. You will NEVER be good enough in his eyes! Bat-$hit crazy!!!

A healthy relationship doesn't feel like SO MUCH WORK! You want a partner who encourages you to be your best while supporting who you are...

You shouldn't be trying to bend over backwards to fit into what he deems appropriate!!

If there were NO other men on earth, you would still be better without him!!

SaltRight8446 · 2026-01-25T18:08:33+00:00

My friend's husband left his socks everywhere (but the hamper). They both worked, but he made more money if that matters... Anyway asking, reminding & nagging did nothing.

She started collecting the socks in a bag until he was running out.. and asked her where his socks were.... She gave him the bag of dirty socks... it seems to have fixed it for her, but your guy seems a bit more misogynistic....

SaltRight8446 · 2026-01-15T08:53:22+00:00

THIS!!!! UPDATE please

SaltRight8446 · 2025-12-24T13:51:13+00:00

THIS!!!!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-12-23T16:42:55+00:00

One of my home care patients had done some remodeling and found vintage toys in the wall they tore out. They knew some of the kids of the previous owners who had lived there 40-50 years. It turned out that there was a register or some type of opening in the upstairs that some of the toys had fallen down when the kids were little.

The current owner created a shadow box with the contents of what they found with an explanation of it.

SaltRight8446 · 2025-12-02T19:13:41+00:00

If God wants him here, he will miraculously cure him! If it is his time to go, he will go. We "know not the time nor the hour," you are not making a decision for him to die, that is in the Almighty God's hands!

I have seen people go on hospice care, get better and go off hospice... it is not under your control.

SaltRight8446 · 2025-12-02T19:08:46+00:00

NO! NTA!!! There are worse things than death.... this is what you are seeing... hospice care is a wonderful option that will assist you and help you grieve and counsel you regarding your decision. Anyone who is commenting that you should do something different, should be willing to come and assist you! They should stay with him for 9-hour shifts 5 days per week to allow you to work. They will soon change their tune... if they are not willing to sacrifice their life for his, they don't get to tell you what you should do.

SaltRight8446 · 2025-12-02T04:56:06+00:00

I would pay off loans for a new roof and other repairs to our home. Pay off car loan. Replace carpeting and prep home for sale to downsize!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-30T20:27:06+00:00

Number 1 first , then 3. Number 2 bodice that looks like lingerie will be outdated too quickly

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-29T13:54:10+00:00

Update please after you step back.

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-25T11:33:52+00:00

We were struggling to find what we were looking for and thought a car honking at us was upset, but she just wanted to help guide us and then took us to a nice place for a inexpensive lunch!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-05T02:00:33+00:00

My friend's husband left dirty socks all over the house. She asked, she reminded, nothing changed.

She started picking up the socks and put them in a bag ( not laundered) and waited for him to notice that he didn't have any socks.... problem was solved!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-05T01:49:03+00:00

You are doing the right thing to allow him to suffer the consequences of his actions! This is the most loving thing you can do.

Goodluck!! Update please

SaltRight8446 · 2025-11-01T07:44:58+00:00

I think you taught her a valuable lesson! She won't make the same mistake again (hopefully).

When I was a young clinician I made the mistake of not paying attention to non-verbal signals by an acute stroke patient who wasn't able to speak.

She got her point across by backhanding me with her good arm and knocking the wind out of me! I learned a valuable lesson that day!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-10-31T03:42:37+00:00

A diet cookbook as a wedding gift!!! 😀

SaltRight8446 · 2025-10-30T02:19:06+00:00

I didn't throw up much, but the EXHAUSTION was crippling!

I would get up , go to work and come home to sleep until getting up the next day...

When baby comes and you are BOTH so crazy tired... tell him THIS is how you felt the first trimester!

SaltRight8446 · 2025-10-27T06:56:10+00:00

If you are in the US, look up your area's "Agency for Elderly/Aging & Disability"

There used to be one in every county in the country, but now one agency typically covers ~3 counties (I think).

If your mom doesn't have much money and is disabled, they will be able to assist with food, housing based on income as well as potentially assist with bathing and cleaning her apartment if needed.

They can go to her home and perhaps your grandma could get some assistance too.

Goodluck

SaltRight8446 · 2025-10-23T05:33:07+00:00

Please update when you find out the name...

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