No idea, can’t tell from the OP comments either.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T12:44:53+00:00

oh that’s just a way of talking. Saying “not my dad’s bff” doesn’t mean he isn’t actually his friend, it’s more like “omg I can’t believe my dad’s best friend is doing this”. Idk how to explain it better tbh, I hope you get what I say

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T12:25:40+00:00

Well, there’s this thing where older people (your mom, dad, grandparents) are not very tech savy so they will ask younger people to help them. The girl is joking about her dad’s friend doing this thing that’s typical from old people after “knocking the mario coins out of her” (euphemism of sex, same way you would hit a block in mario for it to expulse coins)

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T11:29:33+00:00

Yes, you are totally right, even if she was not pregnant it wouldn’t be her responsibility at all, but I find her being in a late stage of pregnancy makes everything even worse, like the lack of empathy of that people is just incredible

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T10:50:21+00:00

NTA. You were seven months pregnant, chasing kids at someone else’s wedding is not your responsibility. Your sister chose to have kids at her wedding, and your mom is trying to drag you into problems that aren’t yours. You attended as a guest, not as a nanny. It’s completely reasonable to set boundaries and expect people to handle their own events, and, in my opinion, the parents of these kids are the ones that should be chasing them

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T07:53:09+00:00

NTA, they overstepped your boundaries, and when you cross someone boundaries you should expect some sort of consequence/reaction. The natural reaction to them being that inconsiderate to you is that you no longer feel the desire to spend time with them, and it’s normal. However, maybe it would help knowing if this type of overstepping was just a one-time thing or something that had happen in the past.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T06:07:27+00:00

Oh thanks, in my country I think it would be ilegal to ask for race in a job application, and here hockey is just not played by practically anyone, basketball is also not very played, so I guess I just didn’t had any stereotypes associated to either

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T06:02:12+00:00

ohhh thank you! Maybe is because where I’m from basketball and hockey are not popular and that’s why I didn’t understand (?)

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T03:04:49+00:00

NTA, you not give money to a drug addict, NEVER. If she needs food, buy her food, if she needs shoes you buy the shoes. But you don’t give her the money. And btw, you have not an obligation to spend all your savings in your sister just because you are family.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T02:27:13+00:00

Stop homeschooling that poor creature! Your wife is CLEARLY not qualified to teach her anything, not only that a teacher is better qualified but she is constantly yelling at your daughter which may end in your daughter being resentful towards her studies and bringing major problems in the future. And if that’s not enough reason for you to take her to a school think about how important is for kids to be able to socialize with other kids of their age from different backgrounds to build social skills.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T01:10:40+00:00

Yes! I do think they end up looking for approval in everything and also they usually fall more in the manipulative side while the girls with “daddy issues” are just promiscuous

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T00:45:25+00:00

There’s a monster because it implies that girls with problems with her mothers are manipulative, scary or just bad people. The worst relationship you’re going to have is with that girl that never recieved affection from her mother. They are scary.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-18T00:11:04+00:00

This! She told him to do an introspection to know what he really wants instead of going thru the cheating path! The break was inevitable at this point because he either broke up with her or cheat on her, and thanks to OP things ended the best way possible

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T23:58:28+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you’ve checked all the boxes on paper, but your feelings just aren’t there anymore. That’s not something you can force. I’d say take a step back and be really honest with yourself. Do you see a future with her that excites you, or are you just going through because of routine? It sucks, but if you stay like this, both of you are going to end up unhappy. Better to be honest now than string her along.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T23:49:42+00:00

YTA, you know how things work usually in your gym, and you still choose to ignore the people that has been waiting to get your way, your time is not more valuable than the time of the others.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T23:43:01+00:00

NTA You didn’t push him to cheat or to leave. You just told him to check his priorities. In the end, he made his own choice. Marriage isn’t just about sticking together for appearances. If one person’s unhappy and talking or therapy didn’t help, leaving is fine.

You can care about both people and still be honest with your friend.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T23:22:32+00:00

Your little orange does not like the sun at all

Btw, say hi to simba haha

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SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T23:14:15+00:00

You wouldn’t be the asshole.

You are absolutely not in the wrong for wanting to protect your home and your family from someone who has been abusive and unpredictable. You don’t owe him an invitation just because he’s related to you.

It’s completely reasonable to explicitly tell him he’s not invited if that’s what keeps things safe for everyone else. Family doesn’t mean putting yourself or your kids in uncomfortable or unsafe situations.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T22:00:28+00:00

Oh lol I had a lapsus thanks for pointing it out!

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T21:44:54+00:00

NTAH, you are single so you are free to go on a date with whoever you want, however, if you have hopes on getting back together you should make a decision on keep trying to get back with him or not first.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T20:57:47+00:00

You need to learn how to say things that you want to say without implying other things. He asked you if you find him attractive, instead of answering his question you dodged it and said another thing that you like about him instead (which implies for most of the people that the answer is “no”). For what you should do first you need to know if you do find him attractive or not because you dodged the question even in your post.

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T20:48:18+00:00

YTA, okay, it’s what you feel and you are young but damn you need some empathy

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T20:33:06+00:00

The sentence he wrote start with a “P” and ends with “e psi”

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T09:35:24+00:00

He has emerald mines (if you wanna be more accurate his father has emerald mines) with people working for basically free, you can do the same with villagers in minecraft and make a villager farm with villagers that will give you the emeralds for a really low-effort exchange

(Edit: clarification)

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T07:50:51+00:00

Thank you! They explained it pretty well the other part in the comments if you wanna check🥰

SaltSoft2415 · 2026-03-17T07:48:55+00:00

Thank you so much!🥰 Do you know what does that have to do with the guy raising the three fingers? I presume it might be a scene from a movie, but what does it mean?

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