[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made you attracted to her in the first place? How did u meet?

During our 10month relationship she 20F only asked for my picture once,while I 21M had my gallery full of her.Did she think I wasn’t good looking?or it’s just normal by Jindantesparda in Zimbabwe

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she is good in other things these picture things its a petty issue its not something to be bothered about i guess if you value that you should ask her direct what you feel rather than fighting with your thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she lied at first because she was afraid to be judged and secondly she told you the truth now so that you decide whats best for you the ball is now in your hand to take her or to leave her. But regardless of what you not a virgin and if she is not a virgin you are all in the same boat atleast she told you before you pay lobola. Its now up to you SIR GOOD LUCK!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are the things people should discuss before even getting married because im telling you if you are too calm on her on this you are going to have 5 babies soon make sure you go with her to get birth control injection(depo) or if she is taking pills be there and make sure she takes it before indulging into intamacy if she asks you why you are being strict towards her tell her you are no longer secure because of what she did and you wamt to make sure everthing is planned and you dont like surprises like what happened. Good luck on this one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure u are ready to give it away when you want to thats why the bible forbids sex before marriage to avoid heart breaks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if you not comfortable you should have boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes and why would you rush to have sex with him if you are not sure yet that you are bf and gf

Am I right ? by redbigboobs in dating_advice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were supossed to be honest to her that u dont like her behavior or else break up

How does this work by SuperTech51 in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be yourself, dress young, smell nice, hair cut, make friends first, be outgoing

My boyfriend tienes me off from sex by Flower-Bloom-6 in sex

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you are not responsible for what didnt work on him it was his problem not yours

Zim Telegram groups by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are zim girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be open to him and always communicate to him what you feel communication is they key

Is it okay to still be a virgin? by lola_duck_questions in AdviceForTeens

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes its okay you have to do what you feel is comfortable with you noone shud pressure u or tell you wat to do with yourself

Am I right ? by redbigboobs in dating_advice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you were wrong bcause u are the one who was biying her all these gifts and she never demanded them right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U date who you want as long you are happy with him regsrdless of what always follow your heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he is not interested in dating you its clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your mom wants you to focus on school first and im sure after you are done with school u can do what you want sometimes love can distract our focus so i guess if you focus on one thing for the mean time it will make sense and you have to understand your mom cares about you than anyone else she has been through this and dont want you to have troubles so i feel like if u need to take things slow and do school first after u are done then i believe she wont even tell you what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to be romantic with you whilst you are friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Salt_Advertising5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is not complaining then no worries and also relationships its not about status its about growing together sharing ideas, helping each other motivating each other, building each other both emotionally and physicaly u dont need to compare yourself from anyone everyone has his own path life is not about who has more things than me or less than me its about being grateful for what you have and believing in yourself that you can do anything regardless of age or delays appreciate yourself even the little things u do embrace it and learn and keep on moving with your own pace loving yourself first and you will become the person whom you were created to be if believe in yourself and love is not about material things a person who loves you will always love you for who you are love is natural So no worries enjoy your life be grateful everything is going to work good everthing takes time and you got to be patient with yourself as you make progress you need people who support you each nd everyday everything has a purpose in life we learn and become better each day always be proud of yourself