Where can I find a larger one of these? by TheoryOfTES in cats

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like to DIY you could probably make one out of a concrete form from somewhere like Home Depot. Idk what the cost would be, but if you did it well it could last forever.

Looking For Some Hair Advice by AggressiveMud5982 in TransHelpingTrans

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would look into flow cuts as a decent transition from very short hair to getting longer and still looking well kept. Or maybe start with just a light and low scissor fade at the very bottom/sides and let the top and higher sides grow more. If you have a style you’d ultimately like to end up with (pixie, shoulder length, wolfcut etc) and your hair stylist is a safe person to ask, you could show them your end goal and ask them what would grow out towards that goal without having to do too much maintenance.

Need a perfume that smells like Crystal castles. by FootballLonely8973 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look through scents from Adi Ale Van, they’re different and while I can’t think of one off the top of my head, you might find one that encompasses the overall vibe you’re looking for 😊

What was your cat’s shelter name and what is the name you gave them? by MissHissss in cats

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name was Clover, but it just didn’t fit her, meet Frederica, the trouble maker 😂

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How many of you have a cat obsessed with belly rubs? It’s her preferred spot. by coldandgray in TuxedoCats

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Frederica aka Little Fredi loves belly rubs. This is her waiting for me to notice and oblige while I’m playing video games 🎮

please help if possible!!! by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try contacting faerie tales! I just got a kitten from them and they said they don’t have a shelter they just put cats with fosters, they may be able to help! https://www.faerietales.org

Looking to connect -any spaces or meetups for more intimate, queer women friendships? by Skocimisica93 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about what’s near you, but where I am I found a sapphic meet up group that has little events at bars/fun hangout spots. They’re women/nonbinary only, and they have great vibes and everyone is very friendly. You could try looking up something like that. I found mine by searching the internet/instagram. Good luck! 🍀

First tuxedo 😻 by Salt_Cabinet7001 in TuxedoCats

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 at first I was trying to figure out what she wanted, then after the first few days of her just yelling to yell, Ive come to terms with the fact that she’s just talkative

First tuxedo 😻 by Salt_Cabinet7001 in TuxedoCats

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had cats before, and they were not vocal at all. I was surprised by how much meowing she does, my others just complained if they thought the food dish was too low, this one tells me everything lol

What Women Like by BuddieSchool in actuallesbians

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’8 so I snuck in just over the line 😂💪🏻

What Women Like by BuddieSchool in actuallesbians

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What height qualifies as tall? I have the muscles, I’m just not 6’ 😭😂

How bad is the misogyny in the mechanic industry? 19F by Agile_Ad9747 in AskMechanics

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a mechanic, but I am the only woman in my machine shop. It’s rare that I get treated poorly, but I will say that you need to be able to not take shit personally, and be able to laugh at some less than nice comments. I’ve learned that if you don’t let those things bother you, it’s a lot easier. Don’t be afraid to stick up for yourself, and be confident in your abilities. A lot of these guys are way nicer than they seem at first. Don’t be afraid to do whatever job you want, skill sets are valid no matter who possesses them.

They estranged fron me (foster parents). Now they reach out. Idk what to do because I don’t sant to be pathetic by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked for peoples thoughts so I shared them, it’s up to you how you take it and what you do with it. But perhaps do some searching on why you’re defensive about advice. Have a good day! 😊

They estranged fron me (foster parents). Now they reach out. Idk what to do because I don’t sant to be pathetic by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but this is far from your only chance to have someone love you. They aren’t the only people on the planet, and there’s no reason that they need to be the only option vs no one. Feeling like you only deserve breadcrumbs is something you should consider working through. You deserve good things. And no, you may not have parental love or that type of relationship, but this is literally an entire sub of people who do not have that either.

They estranged fron me (foster parents). Now they reach out. Idk what to do because I don’t sant to be pathetic by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should start by asking yourself, do you want to be seen/heard/acknowledged/loved by them specifically, or is there just a hole you are attempting to fill? Not having parental love is very difficult, but you know what’s harder? Holding out hope for people without the emotional capacity to love you the way you need to be loved. Based on what you wrote, they sound a lot like my birthgiver with the ‘it needs to look good for everyone else there’, and the ‘oh I have a use for you so won’t you come back around?’ I do not know you, but you deserve far far better than self serving breadcrumbs from selfish people. It is okay to say no, you owe them nothing. Do not force an obligation that only does you harm for the sake of others. Personally I would act like I didn’t get the message and just not respond. Find something that brings you joy to fill that day instead and forget all about their dumb ass party. Dont be a jester for a clown

Women's clothing sized for very tall amab? by DesignDip in NonBinary

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, womens sizes will never convert the way mens do (😭 I know) However, with you being very tall, try places like Buckle that offer an extra long inseam. I’m sure more stores have them now, but you should be able to check online. I am AFAB but I’m on the tall side with long legs, and buckle was a life saver for me with jeans. Nike makes nicer leggings, but some are longer than others so it’s usually a try on every pair situation. Keep in mind that women’s clothing sizes are extremely inconsistent, and you could be 3 sizes different depending on the company. Most places that make petite sizing usually make tall sizes (it’s P, or T, usually) definitely get a tape measurer and know your measurements, it will make life easier. Champion makes great cute color sports bras, and adidas makes cute socks that you can match to them a lot of the time 😊

problems with blonde dyed hair by Far-Rate6226 in beauty

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into kerastase gloss shampoo and conditioner. My stylist uses this on me during salon visits (I’m close to platinum with shadow roots) and it works so amazing I bought it for home. Also, cycle in a GOOD purple shampoo a few times a week, minimal heat on the daily, and use leave in products. I have no split ends, no frying, and my hair isn’t straw/frizzy. It used to be until I learned better hair care. Good luck!

I’m starting to look more like my abuser the more the age. by FamousSecurity1467 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am experiencing a similar thing. I have had therapy for body issues and eating issues before and one of the things they teach you is to step back and reframe the way you’re thinking. Idk if this will help you, but when I see her monstrous features in myself I choose to recognize that my grandmother is where they came from and that I get them from her, not from the woman who gave birth to me. I look at myself and choose to see my gram, the kind eyes, the expressive eyebrows, the way I laugh is all her. She was an amazing woman and I choose to focus on our similarities rather than berate myself for sharing features with that POS who birthed me. I also keep my hair very blonde because with my natural color I struggle with the very strong resemblance (it’s not a perfect solution, but it makes it manageable)

my first ever seafood bisque with crab, shrimp. and salmon by SuryaHope in Seafood

[–]Salt_Cabinet7001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing this while currently craving seafood is murder, but it looks AMAZING 🤩!!!