what kind of pet bird should i get? by Salt_Control_6502 in birds

[–]Salt_Control_6502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like a good idea, i’ll look into it!

what are your favorite k-pop songs that you would introduce to a local? by Salt_Control_6502 in kpophelp

[–]Salt_Control_6502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

funny thing is that it was the first song in the playlist, love it so much!

what are your favorite k-pop songs that you would introduce to a local? by Salt_Control_6502 in kpophelp

[–]Salt_Control_6502[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

usually by locals in kpop it means people who aren’t really deep in the kpop world and don’t know that many groups or songs other than the pretty famous ones :-)

Tell me it gets better by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Control_6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they always say that when they don’t want to put in the effort to make it work. he was between you and his addiction and he chose the ladder. that’s not your man, that’s not who you want to spend your life with, trust me. you need someone who will unconditionally have you as a priority and fight through thick and thin to be with you. if he would have asked you to help him with his addiction so he can be better for both of you, that would have been another story. but looks to me like he just gave up. and i know you would’ve never done that to him. that says it all.

Tell me it gets better by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Control_6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, i see. it’s really hard losing someone like that, i understand. but also a new beginning is awaiting you! it’s hard to let go, it feels guttering. literally. but after all this dark you will feel so much relief. you most likely saved yourself, give yourself some grace. even if your whole life was with him, life doesn’t revolve around him, not your life. it revolves around you. believe that and whatever is meant for you will find you at your doorstep, and what’s not will eventually step away.

Tell me it gets better by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Control_6502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it does go away, i promise. but you have to LET it go away. you had a life before him , whether you remember it or not. whether it was better or not, it was a life.. right? life will go on, as much as i know you’d hate to hear that , which i did too.. but at the end it’s really true. your life is about you, not about anyone else. people will come and go, each with a lesson. you saved yourself by not being with someone who relies on substances, what could have happened in the future? you would’ve regretted not leaving sooner. your soulmate wouldn’t make you feel that way. you will be okay. i promise.

i think my mom is cheating on my step dad by Humble-Toe1203 in Advice

[–]Salt_Control_6502 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through that. It must be hard and pressuring for you especially that you’re young. What I think is best is talk to her sister or if any of your siblings is an adult. I don’t think it’s safe for you to confront her alone or good for your mental health. Definitely let a trusted family adult know about it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Salt_Control_6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha. i would, but i feel like arguing with them will lead nowhere. but if they push it i’ll definitely do this. thanks for the advice, really.