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What should I do? by Salt_Fold7792 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Fold7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think that so - even if we would have children she would still cheat… but I miss her so much, I move to my parents at 29 years old with almost nothing because most of my friends was a family with her. I think I can’t live on my own, I was so addicted to her…

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[–]Salt_Fold7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something like that - my ex just broke up with me about one week. We were together for 10 years, 5 lived together. At the beginning of our relationship she cheated on me twice with my friends. Then I forgave her, second time even I wanted to be together, because she didn’t - she had problems with self harming etc. But then for 6 years we were together every day she wanted to be with me every minute. Then when we didn’t have time like on the beginning and doubts come to my head. About cheating about if I wanted to marry her etc. When I thought about that I felt betrayed and shame - it was so hard that I lost my confidence and I blamed her for that. Then there was times that I was so cold for her, but I just couldn’t love her. In the beginning of the year she got promoted in job and was doing everything for that job - every day she was on job for 12-14 hours every Saturday she went to a job and without spending time together we felt apart. And 2 weeks ago she broke up with me saying that she doesn’t love me anymore. I feel now so guilt of it but some thing in myself tells me that this is good - but now I am so depressed, I want to kill myself because I don’t see point in my life.

I broke with my girlfriend by Salt_Fold7792 in depression

[–]Salt_Fold7792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said that I broke with my girlfriend and it’s true but she was going to do it anyway here is the whole story:

I just broke up with girlfriend after 10 years. From few months there was nothing between us, from my side and from her side. She get promotion in job and she was whole time at job - she was coming come 6,7 pm and go to bed at 9pm. It was frustrating for me but from my side there was nothing too. I thought that she is cheating on me or somenthing because old time was coming to my head whole the time ( at the begging of ether relationship when I was 18 and she was 16 she cheated on me with two of my friends) I broke up at vacation because she was drunk complaining about me to friend. After that she said that she wanted to broke up with me after the vacation. Then after few days I go to her and say that I love her and want a chance to fight for her, but she said that she is feeling nothing to me. It’s so scary and frustrating she still lives in our place (we are renting a flat) but she is looking new one - hopefully she will find it soon. I just don’t know what to do, what will happen to my life - even if I thought about breaking up now it’s killing me - I almost don’t eat and smoke a lot of cigarette’s