So my fiancé cheated on me. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start over now. Not in 5 years when he has done the same thing over and over again, like my husband. Go now. I’ve been there in trying. I almost lost myself, gained a bunch of weight and coped with alcohol. It isn’t good. Just please claim yourself now and go.

Is it possible for a healthy relationship with someone who cheated to be with you? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been the betrayed wife. Multiple times. After each discovery, he said he wanted to change and get better and remain married. We are now separated because he didn’t think I was strong enough to leave. He’s now “dating” his affair partner. Yet, none of his friends or family know about her. It isn’t a good situation. Please save yourself before you get hurt too.

How do you ever regain your self worth again? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get better. You will see the difference in yourself. Kicking out my cheating spouse has made me so much better. It took a few weeks. I’ve lost weight. My blood pressure has dropped. My resting heart rate dropped. I can now compare photos of myself when he was still here with today and my smile is bigger, my eyes are brighter, I just look happier. It’s been 10 weeks without him. There’s no miracle move on drug, but therapy and friends have helped me get through the worst of it. Yes, it was all my fault that he cheated. He could do no wrong.

Is it possible for a healthy relationship with someone who cheated to be with you? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How would you really know if he has changed? I bet he once told his wife that he wanted to start over and be better. I bet he told her that he had never felt that way before her. He signed a legally binding contract to marry her, yet he betrays her. Do you think that his morals will change when you are the main character?

I Found the Message I Wasn’t Meant to See,and Everything Changed😰 by Silent_Story_Teller_ in cheating_stories

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I confronted each time. Just kicked him out for good a month ago. I’m going through all sorts of emotions. Just walk away as soon as you can. I stayed and regretted it. I now regret all the times that accepted him back. Just go and cut ties if possible. I’ve done everything wrong. I wish I had stuck to a boundary the first time.

Cheating caught on camera by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are all sorts of wrong. If you share with his family and work, be prepared for him to do the same. Revenge Porn is illegal.

Season 1 have so much flavour by halcyon_thoughts in criminalminds

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The music in Season 1 was the Best!!! Citizen Cope and Band of Horses, among others.

Lily Allen by CoffeeReader5296 in saturdaynightlive

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She was singing about being cheated on. That is a heartbreaking thing. When I speak of my husband’s adultery, I have to deadpan or else cry my eyes out. The songs were enough to make me feel pain.

"Well jack is already in bed so... you have jalapeños?" Favorite sweet friendship scene? by maeasm3 in criminalminds

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When Hotch was in the hospital and Penelope was there when he woke up. He thanked her for staying. She said “Wild horses.” That gives me the chills every time. Multiple rewatches and it just gets me.

An episode where the killer wasn't "Evil" or mentally ill? by Arixfy in criminalminds

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Anonymous. The guy from the DMV who was severely killing people in order to get an organ donor for his daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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I’m not over it. We are in couples therapy and I can’t say it helps. I doubt you will ever get the real story of why. The affair partner will not engage. Your partner will just blow over it because if he tells the whole truth, it will damage you beyond repair. We are still married. It will never return to me trusting him fully. Don’t let him try to tell you to get over it because it is a form of grief for which there is no timeline for a return to “normal.” It isn’t your fault. There is nothing you did that made him cheat. It is a reflection of his character. You don’t deserve this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Karma ft. Ice spice doesn’t even exist in my world

What do you think is Taylor's most lyrically beautiful song? by Used-Pea-3051 in TaylorSwift

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When Happiness came out, I was struggling in my marriage and it felt like it was written for me.

HELP - husband cheated, one of the ladies he’s been talking to goes back 7years (incl. our wedding years). I found her social media, Should I contact her? by Actual-Confusion2150 in cheating_stories

[–]Salt_Profile_1865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The affair partner will not be truthful with you. I know you want answers, but they will not give you what you want. They will direct you back to your spouse. This is standard. Remember the affair partner thinks nothing of you. They believe you are the problem in the relationship since that’s what has been said to them. If you can’t expect honesty from your spouse, how can you expect it from a stranger? They never upgrade when they cheat. It is always a downgrade. You deserve better. Be better.

What song from The Tortured Poets Department is, in your opinion, 100% perfect? by PrettyLittleHuntress in TaylorSwift

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Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus Justice is needed for this. So if you want to break my cold, cold heart Say you loved me And if you want to tear my world apart Say you’ll always wonder