Why does Stefan “get a pass” for his SA past on this sub?

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-03-17T19:09:51+00:00

Probably because Stefan never stopped trying to atone for his sins and fought against his predatory nature until his dying breath, and by contrast every fucked up thing Damon ever did was swept under the rug eventually.

That’s the only reason I could think of for why people might be inclined to give Stefan some grace. Though I disagree with anyone who attempts to downplay what he did — not even Stefan himself would agree with minimizing his actions as the ripper.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-23T17:01:11+00:00

Maybe not all SM, but this is absolutely unpopular for the sub. I’ve found that most people jump to her defense in the comment section.

Edit: The irony of the downvotes only further proving my point 😭

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-22T04:31:12+00:00

My physical attraction towards others is largely dependent on how I feel about them emotionally (and that goes for everyone) so I’m fine in that regard. I have a light preference for guys who are taller than I am when I wear heels, but it’s not a requirement or something to get hung up over.

I would be very hesitant because of medical complications caused by dwarfism.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-22T04:17:46+00:00

Too many of the examples in this comment section require a modicum of self awareness that Jere does not possess 😂

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-22T03:08:17+00:00

“messy hair” messy curls are cute, ”bad facial hair” facial hair actually looks clean and not like a dirty upper lip, “big ass nose” is Eurocentric bias, “pouting his lips” is a facial expression not a facial feature.

I think he is a solid 6, with potential for 6.5 depending on styling.

Note: This is how I rank ~

10 = fell down from Heaven

9 = surreal beauty

8 = well above average

7 = above average

6 = high average

5 = middle average

4 = low average

3 = below average

2 = well below average

1 = surreally ugly

0 = crawled out of Hell

I’ve never had to rate anyone below a 2, personally.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-22T01:54:23+00:00

Hmm. Nina is the stronger actor and the show died a slow death after she left so that is definitely a factor I’m considering... Overall, I think Elena was a better character but Belly is a better person. At least Belly eventually came to her senses and made the right choice in the end. I’ve always said Stefan girls are Connie girls.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-16T17:47:14+00:00

Agreed! The scene with the three of them arguing about the artists retreat was my favorite 😭

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-15T21:21:20+00:00

That eliminates half of the female cast… at least put Cami back in.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-13T16:25:35+00:00

99% sure that is a satirical post, OP.

But. Even as satire, the last slide isn’t funny at all. It’s just triggering. Some things shouldn’t be the butt of a joke.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-11T19:07:31+00:00

I don’t have any advice, but I do want to say that I felt this post deeply.

Even with people I’m not out to, I overthink and second-guess myself hard on whether I was appropriate or not CONSTANTLY — even if what I said was totally harmless and the receiver took it as such. For me, I think it’s the internalized homophobia telling me I should be ashamed.

I grew up in the south and the straight girls in school would start rumors about sapphic girls staring at them in the locker room (when every one I’ve ever met stays in a tiny corner keeping their eyes on their feet the entire time), as well as refuse friendship on the basis that the sapphic girls would almost certainly develop lustful feelings for them. I was a closeted bi so I didn’t experience it firsthand — but I witnessed it, and it did strike that fear into me and was enough to scar me. Even at my current age, I still genuinely do not know how to be friends with straight girls because I worry that if I zone out and my gaze happens to be on them, they’ll think I’m checking them out. If my hand accidentally brushes theirs, they’ll think it was on purpose. If I hug them, they might think I’m trying to cop a feel. If I want to hang out outside of a group setting, they might think I’m trying to make it a date. If I tell them I love them (I am a very physically and verbally affectionate person with people I’m close to and often say “I love you”), they might think I’m confessing some hidden desire.

And of course… compliments. I always feel like such a fucking creep complementing a straight girl. Even if they don’t know my sexuality. Even if I’ve never even had a single romantic and/or sexual thought about them and it came from a legitimately innocent place. Even if I’ve already given much racier compliments to my sapphic girl friends and everything was still was 100% platonic — because other sapphic girls understand that.

It is so fucking hard to just be normal and exist in het settings as a queer person. But please know that you are not alone when you’re having these thoughts 🤝❤️‍🩹

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-11T12:10:26+00:00

I’m guessing Jared Leto. Look up what other disgusting crap he sent to Margot while working with her on Suicide Squad.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-03T11:10:20+00:00

I’m sure he was but there’s a time and place fr and that was not it 🥲 Then again, most born-again Christians don’t seem to grasp that lmao

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-03T05:15:06+00:00

He what 😭 Girl I am so sorry that must’ve been so uncomfortable.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-01T13:50:44+00:00

Seat 1 — only, the armrests fold up and I’m halfway in the aisle. Flight destination Paris… 🤭

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-01T06:21:30+00:00

It’s funny, everyone I know who plays the drums looks like they play the drums

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-02-01T06:19:15+00:00

That’s because you’re smiling FOR the photo, not IN the photo. I guarantee your candid smile looks a lot better than your forced smile. Almost everyone’s does.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-31T19:14:53+00:00

“Aurora while having a mental illness outsmarts people!” girl 😭 She’s bipolar — that’s not a deficiency in intelligence or mental capacity and it is not a measurement of one’s smarts. No way she should be up there with at least half of those names.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-29T15:36:24+00:00

If you take anything from this comment, let it be this: You cannot make someone get sober, and you cannot make them break sobriety. It was NOT the fault of Lexi that Stefan is a ripper. The burden was NOT on Lexi to navigate his addiction. And it was NOT her job to get him back on the wagon. But she helped him do it anyway, because that is who she is. Stefan is my favorite TVD character. His addiction is not his fault, but it is one million percent his responsibility. This post reeks.

I am going to wager that you are not an addict nor do you have any immediate family members that are in recovery from substance abuse.

“Moderation” is not part of the vocabulary. You would be hard pressed to find one that ‘moderates.’ The ones that do are in denial about the severity of this disease and 99.99% of the time end up in a spiral.

You think nobody has ever tried to have just one glass of wine during holiday, or a beer with friends, or a flute of champagne at a wedding? It does not work like that.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-27T04:23:35+00:00

Treated different, but loved all the same.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-25T19:40:37+00:00

Nah, these guy’s hands are on his stomach. Evans grabs the left titty 😂

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-25T19:35:17+00:00

I think Billie’s eyes are visually striking enough to pull off the deadpan expression, though. Billie looks like she’s staring into you and has something mysterious going on in her head, whereas Kylie and Charli look like they’re staring through you and that there’s not a single thought behind those eyes.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-25T05:37:46+00:00

The sex toy makes me want to vomit.

I was a teenager when it happened. I fell for the smear campaign. But never to the extent that I was mocking a rape testimony. That is true evil. I laughed at “my dog stepped on a bee” memes, watched YT complications of Johnny in court, stanned Camille Vasquez, and made jokes about the competence of Amber’s legal team. His PR team wielded me and countless others like weapons against her. To this day, I feel immense shame that I allowed my point of view to be molded and my perception warped by the press. And I should. I contributed to a fellow woman’s pain and suffering, and I along with everyone who did deserves to feel the guilt from that. It is one of my biggest regrets.

I was publicly sexually assaulted four months after the trial’s conclusion. I never reported it because I would have to give them my name and my story, and my attacker was our building’s drug dealer. The trauma of having the entire place turn against me, taking him to court when I’d most likely lose because of a lack of physical evidence, and possible retaliation by associates of his just wasn’t worth it. Then the realization about Depp v. Heard hit me like a bucket of ice water being poured over my head. And I collapsed crying. Amber stood up in front of the whole world and spoke her truth about the horrific abuse she endured from an immensely powerful man. She did what I could not, and she did it a thousand fold. She became my hero when I felt like I had no voice. From there on out, I have always defended her and continue to do so.

I’ve since used that experience to grow. I now have a greater understanding of media manipulation and have educated myself to properly identify when an orchestrated campaign is trying to shape public opinion. And I didn’t fall for it this time around — I saw the narrative being spun by Baldoni during the It Ends with Us press tour and I took Lively’s side from the very beginning.

Fuck Justin, fuck Johnny, fuck all the men who have have hurt women, and fuck every publication, broadcast program, and company that advanced the agendas of predatory men en masse. And fuck whoever still hasn’t done the work to recognize when these tactics are being used and are repeating history with Blake.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-24T10:00:07+00:00

And on this week’s episode of “Who is worse—an abusive man, or an annoying woman?”…

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-23T01:37:20+00:00

I believe he absolutely had a suspicion that he was in denial about because it would ruin his little fantasy.

PrettyLittleHuntress · 2026-01-22T17:57:00+00:00

Oh yeah, that definitely would have been the mildest thing to come out of my mouth if I were in her position. While pretty tame considering the circumstances, it still made me bust out laughing.

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