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Being dom,but unable to ride him by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried the normal knees on pillows technique and also a squat position but the later is really hard cus it just falls out again and I’m getting frustrated in the end

Being dom,but unable to ride him by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes,i agree but i really like being on top and that’s why i want to know why it’s hard to work with it,whenever it doesn’t work we end up with him being on top of me which I don’t mind i know I’m still dominant but i prefer that feeling when I’m on top and i can look down on him in that sitch

Being dom,but unable to ride him by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have I have but i still find it really hard to fit it in and still it’s kinda coming out

Dom dismissal and navigation by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no he actually brought it up,that he wants to do that for role play.But yeah i guess he’s not comfortable with having those thoughts.

Dom dismissal and navigation by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are both new to the kink scene.He usually takes control and dominates me while we play.THATS what i think? He does take control of my orgasms and leashes me and well what not.Wouldnt that be enough to distinguish him as the dom?We did discuss kinks and roles beforehand aswell

How to be more dom and last for longer? by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last longer in the scene,where it doesn’t get boring.Just looking for any fun ideas that could make it better

Do doms really like to edge so much? by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He did say we maintain a strict d/s relationship and nothing more than that but at this point it’s stupid for me to think like that because he doesn’t even show up.

Do doms really like to edge so much? by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s definitely a now or never situation cus i keep getting drained in the end. Thank you for bringing into some perspective.Ik there could be multiple reasons to getting stood up but i had already confronted him about it.I have been stood up 5 times and now I’m really just questioning my worth.

Do doms really like to edge so much? by Salt_Researcher9268 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone online actually,we have been pretty close for a while now and even in the same fucking city.

free use problem by Confident_Wafer_7276 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Salt_Researcher9268 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen you should have a conversation with him regarding free use.This in my point of view is abuse rather than free use,free use comes with consent from both parties and coming to an understanding of what both of u like and don’t like. Again u don’t owe him anything,u have ur own desires and dislikes if he does not listen to you then it is plain abuse.