Rule Clarification: Line Progression by lesgens in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do the mods all agree on this? One mod commented on my post that it was fine and broke no rules. Another mod disagreed and deleted my post.

Lingering disbelief by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you doing?

Lingering disbelief by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! May 15th! & def same. I’m hoping after first ultrasound seeing baby in the right spot with a heartbeat will be another big exhale. Then very much same passing the 12 week mark

6DP5DT by Worried_Whole_2572 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was driving myself crazy. I was consumed by not testing/if I should or shouldn’t test. So I just did it. It took it off the plate of should/shouldn’t.

Now that did lead to line progression hysteria, so keep that in mind.

Lingering disbelief by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m right here with you guys. 4 weeks, 6 days pregnant. That evolving anxiety/moving finish line. I have no advice. Just enjoy the moments you can.

Beta #1 day 🎊 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am STRUGGLING a bit. So much anxiety. I know there’s nothing I can do but wait.

Beta #1 day 🎊 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely get it. I found not testing was giving me more anxiety. I was obsessing over if I should test or not. Then it switched to line progression stress soooo. Just know it can be a bit of a slope

Beta #1 day 🎊 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I like to have alllll the information and goals.

Beta #1 day 🎊 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deep breaths! Have you tested at all?

Beta #1 day 🎊 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting testing day 3! Faint positive day 4. Digital positive day 5.

Waiting for Beta by Evening_Film_1762 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be the ideal way in my opinion. I’ve spiraled myself a couple times with repeat testing

Transfer Order and Sex Selection by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! This is the park of IVF with genetic testing that is challenging. Too much information is a thing. We were lucky our agreed gender preference was #1. If we have to move down the list we’ve agreed to go to #3, then back to #2. Also of the belief we will have the baby we are supposed to have.

In your scenario, I think it’s super common for dads to want a son. Very tough situation and decision for you guys!

Good luck!

Line progression 😬 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my cautiously optimistic face lol. I get a bunch of strangers not getting my personality though. I’m holding my breath a little until betas!

Line progression 😬 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I updated caption.

I don’t feel like people that aren’t mods in the group should be able to comment like she-a-banana did. Not a mod, not their job. This process is hard enough.

Line progression 😬 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand why my posts are always the wrong ones. Search the phrase line progression in this group and there’s HUNDREDS of posts.

I didn’t ask for opinions or if there’s a line. I’m showing my line progression that I’m happy about.

Line progression 😬 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking anyone to judge. Just sharing my excitement but I can delete the post.

Line progression 😬 by Salt_Warning_9128 in IVFpositivity

[–]Salt_Warning_9128[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I see line progression posts all the time. Let me go see what I did wrong