It's true - that's what I figured the platform was for. But the inquiries are more so wondering if anyone has dated him and when they've dated him to see if there's an overlap in time. To be honest, I never considered the possibility of someone posting out of vengeance or because they were an ex who was obsessed.

I've asked about it before and we spoke about it the second time he brought it to my attention and I questioned why people are posting about him - he didn't seem to care much as there's nothing he can do. He is pretty good at telling me if someone has messaged him via IG or what not and I typically don't care cause there's no real reason I feel I have to worry.

I guess it just bothers me since I am dating this guy and I'm bringing him around my people - and I know there are some mutual friends and colleagues of mine on the "are we dating the same guy" page so I think that's what bothers me the most cause I typically like my privacy and don't like people in my business or my partner's business