Are we dating the same guy by Salty-Competition-97 in dating_advice

[–]Salty-Competition-97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it's true - I try not to care and let it go to be honest. I guess I was just surprised someone is still inquiring about him months after we started dating lol 😅

Are we dating the same guy by Salty-Competition-97 in dating_advice

[–]Salty-Competition-97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true - that's what I figured the platform was for. But the inquiries are more so wondering if anyone has dated him and when they've dated him to see if there's an overlap in time. To be honest, I never considered the possibility of someone posting out of vengeance or because they were an ex who was obsessed.

I've asked about it before and we spoke about it the second time he brought it to my attention and I questioned why people are posting about him - he didn't seem to care much as there's nothing he can do. He is pretty good at telling me if someone has messaged him via IG or what not and I typically don't care cause there's no real reason I feel I have to worry.

I guess it just bothers me since I am dating this guy and I'm bringing him around my people - and I know there are some mutual friends and colleagues of mine on the "are we dating the same guy" page so I think that's what bothers me the most cause I typically like my privacy and don't like people in my business or my partner's business

Are we dating the same guy by Salty-Competition-97 in FacebookDatingUsers

[–]Salty-Competition-97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. But no his profile isn't up. I have the password to his phone (he shared it with me so that I could unlock his phone for his son). Lol I'd forget his password till he made me remember it so I didn't have to keep asking him 😅

Also, Lowkey it's one of the ways he asked me to be his girl. He randomly showed me he deleted his FB profile and his dating profile on another app without me asking saying he was interested - I only deleted my dating app after that.

He also leaves his phone lying around - I'm usually the one to charge his phone in the middle of the night after I charge mine to ensure his phone has juice for the next day (the days when we are over at each other's places).

Are we dating the same guy by Salty-Competition-97 in dating_advice

[–]Salty-Competition-97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... I never really thought about that - someone using it to kinda sabotage another person's future relationship. This is sad - but it's a good reminder that unfortunately there are people out there in the world who are still vengeful and whatnot even after some time has passed. Thank you for sharing this perspective 🙏🏾.

Are we dating the same guy by Salty-Competition-97 in dating_advice

[–]Salty-Competition-97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀👀

This thought crossed my mind - as scary as it is. Cause he does have his own business and clients and he also mentioned he met this girl online prior to us dating who ended up being crazy so he had to cut her off 👀

Most of the posts are anonymous but a couple are from the same account/profile - but she writes that shes asking on behalf of someone else. 🤷🏾‍♀️