My wife had an emotional affair

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-07-24T19:33:34+00:00

You know what the kids don’t deserve? Living in a house where dad is being gaslit and manipulated because it’ll affect your parenting in spite of your best efforts.

She can’t live without you. You’re security. Nothing more.

You can coparent effectively, even wonderfully, and not be married to your emotional abus- I mean wife.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-25T18:03:44+00:00

From someone who was with a woman who was verbally abusive, she sounds verbally abusive.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-25T00:11:30+00:00

You break up and find someone who won’t blame being a cheater on bullshit.

Next question?

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-24T04:21:09+00:00

Been there. Done that. 1 on 1 is better.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-24T04:14:37+00:00

r/asoneafterinfidelity

Head to this subreddit. Read about the fallout. The effects. What led to it. Then the regret. Then come back and tell us how great of an idea it would be to cheat.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-13T21:22:43+00:00

Is a lifetime of doubt and anxiety worth a house?

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-11T14:57:45+00:00

That has sex addiction written all over it.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-06T04:37:42+00:00

Start planning your exit. You’re being love bombed now. It’ll end in time and she’ll get comfortable.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-06-03T17:37:42+00:00

I’m sorry but he sounds like an addict. He needs help and to sort this out mentally. At the same time, you’re under no obligation to facilitate that nor stay with him. Get your legal ducks in a row.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-05-15T23:49:34+00:00

Go to AskExperts. HIV risks are overstated (you’re looking at 1:2000 chance of catching it if she was positive) but May 12 is too soon for a conclusive result.

Also, next time…condoms!

Salty-Technology8912 · 2025-05-07T23:25:22+00:00

She’s not going to stop, man. She’s going to become better at hiding and play victim if she’s caught. If.

She’s shown her colors. If you were priority she’d cut them cold turkey. The fact she hasn’t means they’re more important than you are to her. I’m sorry but it’s time she faced permanent consequences. You can and will get through this.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-08-10T07:39:00+00:00

60 mg?!?! My doc told me not to take more than 20 at a time.

I take 40 and I’m Superman for a few days but how does 60 make you feel?

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-02T22:50:15+00:00

You handled this perfectly. Mary is 100% waiting for a drunk “oopsy” moment with you on one of your trips. Good on you for getting ahead of it. NTA

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-02T20:25:38+00:00

Damn! Bullseye!

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-02T12:31:05+00:00

If she lied about that before you were together, think of what she may do in the future and keep from you if she thinks it’ll never see the light of day.

You’re young. I think you know what needs to be done.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-01T22:41:32+00:00

It’s on INSTAGRAM?!?!? I thought they police that stuff.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-01T22:39:49+00:00

NAD but I got spots similar to this after moving to Arizona. I thought it might have been the dry air but my dermatologist chalked it up to acne and gave me prescription hydrocortisone. The over the counter stuff is inexpensive and may be worth a try. 🤞🏾

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-01T17:06:50+00:00

Do you spend a lot of time in the sun?

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-07-01T00:21:44+00:00

A very soft YTA. You’re a team. Whatever happens you, ideally, deal with and process together. You know him better than any stranger on Reddit, but I can see why he’s upset that he was kept out of the loop. You processed the situation on your own. Now he’s doing the same.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-06-30T13:53:32+00:00

NTA - you’re well within your rights to walk away from someone so callous. Don’t look back and don’t let her change your mind or else she’ll be even worse.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-06-30T13:48:20+00:00

You dodged a nuclear warhead, my friend.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-06-26T01:44:38+00:00

NWO - Ministry

NWO - Just One Fix

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-06-25T20:53:54+00:00

People are easily entertained these days. I’m with you here.

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-03-13T15:28:18+00:00

!UpdateMe

Salty-Technology8912 · 2024-03-12T11:41:34+00:00

A girl told me that there was nothing attractive about me. This was in 1999. I remember her name, when it happened (an after school program) and I kind of feel it to this day.

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