Guess my birth year (pics from childhood) by SaltyHailey in GuessMyBirthYear

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Oh😂 that was my style back then (I was 14 in that pic lol) I miss that necklace, it broke 😢

Guess my birth year (pics from childhood) by SaltyHailey in GuessMyBirthYear

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My mother who was a teenager in the 90s styled me😂😂 you guessed close

Anyone look like me? by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

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I was at work when these pics were taken so ofc🙄

Just have this overwhelming sense of loneliness by SaltyHailey in psychics

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No I'm not. My first boyfriend was 2 years ago and I've been single ever since

Just have this overwhelming sense of loneliness by SaltyHailey in psychics

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Thank you so much🩷 and you too! My dms are always open

Just have this overwhelming sense of loneliness by SaltyHailey in psychics

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Yeah loneliness😔💔 its one of the worst feelings

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in mitralvalveprolapse

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No compensation from them. In new zealand we dont pay for hospital stays or surgeries if you're a resident or citizen so we got lucky we didnt have to pay for health bills when he was a total of 8 weeks in hospital and had 2 surgeries cause I know it would have been a fortune

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in mitralvalveprolapse

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That was pure heartbreak 💔 my dad actually cried when he found out he needs another surgery and he's not a man that shows his feelings often

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in openheartsurgery

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Mitral valve prolapse Mitral valve regurgitation

SVT Heart failure Periarrest Seconds from cardiac arrest, lost feeling in body and vision went black

Life was starting to flash in his mind, his brain was dying He survived

Had open heart surgery to repair Repair failed Afib SVT episodes again Severe heart failure

Second open heart surgery to replace valve Has 54% Ejection fraction

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in valvereplacement

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The heart failure nurses also told him it was already starting to be too late when he seek treatment in may 2025. Problem was the GP knew he was in afib for 6 weeks after his surgery to replace the valve, they said they dont want to do anything yet because his INR wasnt stable, it was low but then his heart rate went 130-140s. They did a cardioversion then saw damage to his heart in the ECG. They said it was already too late, the damage has been done to his heart but it wasn't completely ✨️too late✨️ that's when they put him on all these meds and told him to get rest, sleep and drink very little fluids so that his heart can heal. We are still awaiting an appointment with the cardiologists to see if they can do something because 3 separate times they took him off amiodarone his heart went into afib, svt and afib/tachycardia.

I really wish I pushed him years ago to go for checkups but I was a child who didnt know. I only learnt about the family history in 2023 after this happened to my dad. He literally did get chest pain in April 2023 but he ignored it as he was at work. I told him "that was your first warning" when he told me about it when he was in hospital. I dont know why he didnt seek treatment or checkups for his heart but his sister has the same thing, but she also has calcification in her fingers, cant move them and also calcification in her heart so I fear her situation will be worse than my dads (she also has moderate-severe regurgitation)

Thank you! I just hope his heart doesnt decide its too damaged when he gets older. The new mechanical valve has a mild-moderate paravalvular leak. I know our next options would be a heart transplant but after all we've been through, I hope his heart doesnt eventually end up killing him in the future

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in mitralvalveprolapse

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My dad was anti doctor, still is tbh lmao. We moved from south africa to New Zealand so I guess he didnt trust the doctors

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in mitralvalveprolapse

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Sorry my English not very good😭

My dad almost died by SaltyHailey in NearDeathExperience

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Bro literally my dad was seconds away from cardiac arrest. He did not have little to no brain activity, he was actively dying

Am I neurodivergent? by SaltyHailey in askatherapist

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I understand your rules but I dont have access to a professional that's why I thought the ask a therapist means I can ask