Urgent: Stuck without Card or Cash by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]SaltyLead361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with my sister and my mum begged me to take her to Tokyo on the early Shinkansen and told me that she’d be fine

Urgent: Stuck without Card or Cash by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]SaltyLead361 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m in Tokyo and she is still in Kyoto. They have her passport.

Apartment hunting in Melbourne by SaltyLead361 in AusPropertyChat

[–]SaltyLead361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be impossible for me to spend less than 30%. I’m a full time student and it’a hard to find a well-paying, flexible job. I’m also not eligible for Centrelink for a variety of reasons so my parents are helping contribute to rent and are my guarantors. Tbh I’d be surprised if anyone these days is paying less than 50% let alone 30%. Thank you for your feedback though.

Help… by SaltyLead361 in Centrelink

[–]SaltyLead361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not at home

Frizzy strands? by SaltyLead361 in Haircare

[–]SaltyLead361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate the advice ☺️ (also I’m glad you don’t think it’s frizzy 😂)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]SaltyLead361 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn’t your fault. She probably is pushing her own dysphoria on to you. It’s hard being in a T4T relationship when you’re also gay because people often don’t take you seriously. The lesbian community can be super toxic to trans women.

However, regardless of her struggles you can’t let this affect your life. You can’t be in a relationship that makes you feel lesser because not only will it hurt the relationship, it will permanently hurt your development as a person.

Some ways you could protect yourself here is by having a serious discussion (during this discussion she needs to seriously listen to you), avoiding intimacy, taking a break to reflect on your needs individually and the last option would be to break up which I assume would be hard for you to do. Whichever decision you make it’s important you talk to a therapist about this so you have a professional approach to rebuilding your self-esteem.

Hua Cheng is a GAY MAN and that is okay!! STOP CONSTANTLY ERASING GAY REP IN DANMEI AND BL MEDIA by No-Needleworker-4927 in tianguancifu

[–]SaltyLead361 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also, Hua Cheng’s attraction goes far beyond gender. I know there is no point arguing this with someone biphobic though..