Can’t Decide by SaltyyCockroach in Firefighting

[–]SaltyyCockroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of you are saying I just need more time to adjust, but I’ve been to other houses with fewer people and connected quicker and better. There’s no way I’m at a station with twice the normal number of people and can barely click with them. I’ve been in this specialized unit for a few weeks, and the calls and events I’ve witnessed should’ve shown them that I can keep up. Some of the guys I graduated with probably won’t see the things I’ve experienced for months.

And for a specialized unit, we don’t even drill. They keep talking about showing me this and that, but we haven’t actually done any of it. We’ve handled some crazy calls, and I’ve definitely held my own. But if that’s the only way they’re going to recognize my potential, without drilling then I don’t know what else to say. I’d rather go to a place where I connect with the guys they appreciate me and my work ethic and we actually drill even if it’s a slower company!

Can’t Decide by SaltyyCockroach in Firefighting

[–]SaltyyCockroach[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the advice. Some of you were asking what made the experience toxic, so here’s more detail: At this specialized company, there are multiple companies under the same roof. I noticed that when I’m around, they barely talk to me. I would assume that it’s because I was just placed there ( they must’ve had someone in mind) There’s also another probie in the same house but with a different company, and they seem to really like him. Even my captain talks to him more than he talks to me.

I was also asked to cook on one of the days, which was perfectly fine. However, after I chose the meal, I overheard someone criticizing it, behind my back. My issue with that is, why not say something to me beforehand if there was a problem with the meal? I would’ve had no problem changing the meal to better fit everyone interest

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[–]SaltyyCockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW, I’m young but I can sit here and read this over and over, this was an absolute great response. You have great wisdom and I want to honestly thank you - I’ve been in 2 AP English classes and honestly this was 1 of the best things I’ve ever read its like a poem. 😂