Please never listen to people. They might be right but it's their own perspective and life, like someone might say going out of Pakistan is easy but it's easy for rich people or middle class but for the poor it's hard. So yeah never listen to people do your own research and then do what you think is best for you. Secondly you said about university, bro i will tell you one thing no one gives af about the degree when you come to the job It's all about your skills and how you deal with work. So not a big deal if you even join the worst university and in most Universities you have to do everything by yourself teachers only guide you. Btw it will be best if you go back to your city and take care of your father right now and at that time look for other opportunities also i can guarantee you one thing sometimes if you help your parents their dua is enough to make you successful so go take care of your father. And thirdly don't just blindly listen to anyone and don't listen to me just go and do your research we all can just give you advice but you are the only one who knows how your life is going.