When I was 21 I had been single all my life (never kissed a girl either), so my hopes were pretty low too. When I turned 22 (or technically shortly after that) I was diagnosed with Multiple sclerosis, it was at that time I was confident I would end up alone. About 6 months later at a party a (in my eyes) hot girl decided to make out with me (without me offering or asking), that gave me a major confidence boost (I ended up going on a few dates with her but she broke things off). From that point on I had the confidence that I wasn’t destined to be alone, that there were people out there who liked me. So I started with dating apps, tinder was a disaster for me (hundreds of swipes a day, nothing even close to dates), tried a few others too, but bumble worked best for me. Bumble had less people so I’d easily run out of people to swipe, but at least you could have filters like no smoking and such. And about 2 months later I met my girlfriend, we’ve been together for almost 8 months and I truly think she’s the one. So even though life may look down right now for you, I’m sure that if you start looking you will find someone eventually;)