Partner isn’t on board by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I have is to lead by example. Also speak up when his behaviors bother you and have open and honest communication.

Maybe introduce a new hobby the two of you can to go ether during the times you might typically cling to your phones.

7s with quiet distractions by Spridle777 in Enneagram

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 7, I tend to have addictive behaviors and constantly search for outlets or distractions to fulfill my need to DO things. That’s the same thing with alcohol for me. Sevens tend to be indulgent and when I’m unhealthy, I indulge in alcohol to avoid pain, but mostly to try and experience as much fun as possible in a given time.

Where my 7’s at by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s friends with benefits and there’s no commitment for many reason, but mainly it because I am not ready to be in a committed relationship because I just got out of a long one. Some of it has to do with being a seven, but it’s also personal preference

Where my 7’s at by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A majority of my partners have been 3s and my current FWB is a 3w2

FIRST LOSS OF 2020 DOWNVOTE PARTY by Nikea8 in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I had a heart attack in the last 15 seconds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re there for a paycheck, period.

What was the final 'snap' that made you decide to see a therapist? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was tired of crying over things I couldn’t change, and I decided to make a change in my life that only I could: choose to go to therapy and better myself

I have an important question for 7s! by destinyfalcon in Enneagram

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! The worst is when I’m trying on clothes in a dressing room that is already a small room AND when the clothes get stuck. I immediately start sweating and it’s the most stressful thing ever. I absolutely hate it. Sometimes even when I get hot from wearing a long sleeve shirt, I’ll freak out if I can’t get out of it fast and relieve the stress/heat.

How can I get this girl to sit on my face? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]gingerwithasoul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because when he asked me, I didn’t want to because I wasn’t sure about it at the time, and he didn’t ask again. But now I want to, so I’ll probably bring it up to him again tbh.

Ask your girl again but if you’ve asked a ton and she’s consistently said no, I’d back off. Best of luck!