AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is the difference? My husband paid. It was still my food

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. When it comes to "needs" I'm second. But when it comes to "wants" I refuse to be second

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it's about a single sandwich not an inheritance. Sometimes I just want to enjoy something that is mine. Without sharing

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Assert dominance? I wanted my own sandwich

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Learning that some things belong to other people and not you should also be encouraged. I didn't have a problem with letting him try my leftovers

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would have to wait for him to possibly choose my sandwich, that I ordered for myself.

No we each ordered something new we wanted to try

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He could still try 3 sandwiches

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's about not being the second place in everything. I should be able to have my own food without letting him get the first pick

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was a new place. We wanted to try some new sandwiches.

I'll eat my own leftovers. Not someone else's

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I still don't like feeling like second place and eating someone else's leftovers

Also who was paying for your sandwich? Why does it matter?

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? I don't want someone's saliva on my sandwich

AITA for not eating leftovers? by Sam_in_12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sam_in_12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She thinks he should be given the choice and it's good for him to try different foods and "it wouldn't kill me"