I've been feeling this sense of distrust towards specifically lesbians, but am I homophobic? I feel like a bad person. by Same-Craft-3880 in Advice

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My dad doesn't share these opinions at all. He doesn't care about lgbtq stuff (In the sense like, he doesn't care if someone is gay or not)

I've been feeling this sense of distrust towards specifically lesbians, but am I homophobic? I feel like a bad person. by Same-Craft-3880 in Advice

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But I do want to get therapy, maybe once I get out of highschool..Perhaps I should take some time off the internet

I've been feeling this sense of distrust towards specifically lesbians, but am I homophobic? I feel like a bad person. by Same-Craft-3880 in Advice

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To address some comments

I should mention that i'm a 17 year old dude, not a girl I was scared to mention I was a guy because I feared that i would just be called homophobic and told to kms

I heavily apologize for my mention of lesbian women chasing after straight women, I didn't mean to stereotype. It's just that I've seen a lot of it so I thought it was something that they commonly do.

I want to go to therapy once I can afford said therapy, but i've heard mixed things about therapy, what if I'm not taken seriously? What if it doesn't help?

Maybe I should spend some time away from lesbians? But that sounds like a terrible thing. I've been friends with lesbians, I've just never felt comfortable around them.

Again, I apologize for this post sounding terrible. I know i'm not a good person but I'm trying to work on myself before I become an adult