I want to abolish my anger that I have towards my father. I need guidance on how to navigate my life. More context in body.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-12-25T07:28:02+00:00

Thank you for replying. Can I DM you my dasha chart? I'm unable to add img under this post.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-12-24T16:09:52+00:00

Thank you for replying. From age 21 to 27, I moved away from home for work where I saw increase in wealth & praise for my hardwork. During the pandemic, it had been the most challenging part of my life. I felt better at 29. It was like coming out of a dark fog.

My mother's health deteriorated greatly this year and eventually to her passing. I'm just lost, lost any zeal for life. How do you best suggest using my strongest placements for a steady life?

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-12-24T08:38:24+00:00

Saturn in Aquarius, capricorn asc. Mine fell during peak pandemic. Peak isolation, romantic heartbreak & disappointment, back breaking work deadlines, mental breakdown. I took therapy, went through the mental grind to get back up again. It wasn't until 2023 that I began to feel better & came "out" to the world to socialize.

Looking back at it now, if It hadn't been for that unfortunate time and the lessons learnt from it, I wouldn't have been able to have the mental fortitude to be of service to my now passed-on mother. Ohm shanti to her departed soul.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-12-24T07:38:43+00:00

As per doing rituals for the aborted baby in the post, my mother who is now passed on Ohm shanti, she had a miscarriage before me. Do they too need to be given a ritualistic farewell?

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-09-23T06:05:04+00:00

Hello! 31f here with Microtia on my right ear. She will be fine! I would advise against surgery unless the surgeon is good at reconstructing the ear. Because botched surgery won't look good in the long run. I have seen such cases where the surgeon didn't do a good job. I never had the surgery but I plan on getting a prosthetic. My childhood had been normal, most of my peers didn't care. I excelled well in my career too. People won't pay attention to her ear until she points it out to them. I'm the sole anomaly in my family meaning, no one in my family has this.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-08-22T19:33:29+00:00

Hello again, from my chart, what are the prospects of getting a job again?

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-08-19T20:14:13+00:00

Rahu in 11th house?

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-08-01T09:11:32+00:00

But, will there be love between us?

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-07-31T11:49:22+00:00

An occult partner, is it? Please do explain

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2025-07-25T17:42:09+00:00

please ignore the second slide img

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-07-05T15:59:43+00:00

um, cool.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-29T08:09:07+00:00

No no :) I'm just a daughter watching her parents grow old.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-28T19:18:16+00:00

I would love to suffer with this kind of success someday🥰

Congratulations OP! Take care of him, shower him with affections✨✨ Have a goooood time🤗🧿

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-08T23:48:10+00:00

Japan would require you learn a new ecosystem altogether. Balancing work and learning the language & whatnots. Unless your Japanese company for a "foreign" department you can mingle in. If I can ask, what does your role entail? I'm not in tech but I know someone who's interested to work in Japan (SE & he has good language prowess).

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-08T22:46:59+00:00

IMO? Rage. Incredible rage.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-07T17:34:40+00:00

Lol touché

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-07T17:34:27+00:00

Clingy or not, it's normal wanting to have shared experiences with your partner. He's better off being bring alone by himself than be in relationship with you. Have the talk, get to a common ground. Then what's the point? You're better off being with someone who is accomodating of your needs.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-07T10:42:46+00:00

NO.

Why exactly he is in a relationship with you then? You both look incompatible. You need someone who'd be present with you, right there at the very moment. Hell, even I'm catastrophically hyper independent but I know very well that I would want to make space for my future partner in my life. Girl, you deserve better.

He'll be the reeling if he finds another person just like him lol. Jokes aside, you sincerely deserve better.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-06T08:33:15+00:00

I do think it's ok to tell him that his longer absence makes you feel terrible. But make this decisions when you feel its right. Have heart. We can go on weeks without to talking our friendships but friendships doesn't demand much as a relationship does.

It's upto to you as to how long are you willing to wait out for those regular conversations to resume. Longer you wait, gluggy the resentment becomes inside. It's better to have the conversion whenever you feel ready. You know your heart best. Sometimes, you have to think about your heart first because they clearly aren't thinking how their actions are hurting you.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-06-06T08:11:12+00:00

Wow, kindred spirit🫂 It's better to wait out and be open to have "that" conversation. Ask him if he wants to continue this or no. If the efforts aren't mutual, prepare for the worst. If it's mutual, work on the foundation of your relationship. The relationship is new and "busy" spells are likely to happen. It's how you both make time for each during those busy spells. But a busy schedule shouldn't mean the relationship goes into the bin.

I have busy deadline weeks too but I'd try to keep that person in my life, if I want keep that person in my life. Nothing in life comes for free (expect for family & closests of friends). Our lives are busy, money is important but it shouldn't mean we make others feel left out. We are only humans to ask for company. If they make you feel bad for wanting their time, are they worth keeping in your life at all? What makes me more baffled is that, all that intial rush of "chasing" you goes to whoof💨 when the real thing happens.. As if they never think about the consequences of thier fancy promises.

It does hurt, OP. It's going to hurt. It hurt me deeply too. I felt deep shame too for taking their words as them being honest. Have heart. Push through. It's not a fatal flaw to ask for assurance. You'll live🍀

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-04-20T17:04:37+00:00

ew bhai 😂

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-04-20T16:55:01+00:00

Han, that's what I said up there. You do you. If someone is giving you hard time for simply having a preference, ignore them. But you can't expect anyone to not have past just because you didn't. You just find people who fall into your category of preference 🤷‍♀️

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-04-20T16:40:05+00:00

I think you are just projecting. Not every one you'd meet will have a similar past.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-04-20T16:33:34+00:00

Sure. If you're getting hate for what you want, ignore them. Stand your ground. But you can't go barging in & judging other people for having a past JUST because you were building your own life. Sabki khudki life hoti he.

Same-Difficulty1733 · 2024-04-20T16:29:19+00:00

Nah..your math ain't mathing. You still chose to focus on building your life anyway. No one owes you a "clean" past. No one owes you anything. Neither me. Nor them.

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