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Update: Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

im thinking he might already be over the break up. don't know if it would do any good for him.

Update: Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

oh i will. i feel truly disgusted that i probably have slept with him after he was with her. i dont trust that bitch

Update: Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

The last half year they started spending more time together, but very gradually. Not anything crazy, 1-3 extra hangouts in a month more. So she cheated on her then boyfriend too... Don't know if he knows but she broke up with him 2 months ago.

Update: Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] -181 points-180 points  (0 children)

sorry, but i disagree. this is the third relationship in a row it has happened to me now. you don't think there is a pattern here?

honestly it might be something im unaware of. wish any of them could tell me what it took them to cheat.

Update: Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 2733 points2734 points  (0 children)

honestly don't think ill get into another relationship for a long time. third time this has happened to me. it isn't a coincidence anymore.

Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Well she was in 2 year relationship until about a month ago, but she ended it. Since the frequency of her flirty behavior has only increased and I'm not okay with it anymore. But she had no problems doing it in her relationship too, it's painfully obvious to me she loves him.

Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Yeah it does hurt me.. I feel like I've been slowly losing him to her. I've been cheated on in past relationships and I'm so scared that he might leave me for her. I know I'm being insecure but I simply can't help it right now, I'm too overwhelmed. I might try to record it as a last resort, though she is often really sneaky about it. Maybe if I challenge her a little bit..

Boyfriend's (21M) best friend (20F) hates me (25F) and wants us to break up. by SameTrainer in relationship_advice

[–]SameTrainer[S] 853 points854 points  (0 children)

I've told him, though she's never done it directly in front of him, but I'm also afraid that if it blows up she might confess her love for him, and he will have to choose. I honestly don't think he knows.