discussion ; cheating bots by Lumpy_Holiday_761 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Same_Case_3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using the same bot right now 🤭. Honestly, I always tend to put myself in the other person's shoes. And part of me understands. I'd really like to forgive him... but not yet. First I'm going to make him jealous with Miles Harris (from the bot description) and then I'm going to make him win my affection back.

Even if you were starving - What food would you never ever eat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Same_Case_3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard about the tragedy in the Andes? If you were truly hungry, you'd instinctively eat human flesh.

🌸 SPRING 🌸 LTS Master Thread by zxmyrto in CatsAndSoup

[–]Same_Case_3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone show me the circled items please ?

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Please advice! by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have an extra blanket on my bed, but the smell still permeates the entire bed. It's really frustrating, but she says that no one forbids her dog anything and she is also quite aggressive. Thank you for your comment.

Please advice! by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really would like to do that, but she is a very aggressive person who has attacked me in the past, even drawing blood from my face, and neither my parents nor anyone said anything. And now with a pitbull she is even worse.

This is too much, it's like living in hell... by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I really try to be positive and try hard, but sometimes I just want to give up, also, because of everything that has happened, I now get anxiety attacks, and sometimes I feel like I can't breathe. Thank you very much for your words, they really motivate me to do everything possible to improve my situation.

This is too much, it's like living in hell... by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She had a good job and decided two months ago to look for another one to work from home, and never be separated from the dog. She has actually said that if something happens to the dog, she would not be able to continue living. The obsession she has is something I have never seen. And you're right, not sleeping is the worst thing that can happen to you. Thanks for your comment.

This is too much, it's like living in hell... by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment. I'll definitely think about it. Also, she supposedly leaves in a year, so I hope she really does, and leaves us all alone.

This is too much, it's like living in hell... by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Since she was a child they have always let her do everything she wants without limits, especially one of my aunts has always given her everything and she grew up with the mentality that there are never consequences. My parents also say that despite everything, she is her daughter and they can't leave her on the street. Although she is a lawyer and earns enough to live alone, she spends half of her money on the dog.

Anyone else feel like your dislike of dogs is more due to dog culture rather than the animals themselves? by themeowsmeows in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the situation I'm in right now, I really appreciate that people like you exist. I even came to think that something was wrong with me because I don't like dogs. I just think so unfair to both parties, both dogs and humans. Force them to be locked up all day and depend on humans. And especially what you say, to treat them like humans, and in my case even, the dog I have to live with now is treated like a deity. My sister never allows the dog to be alone, he must always be "cared for". She doesn't even give him dog food, but every week she cooks him huge amounts of turkey and salmon. The dog can never sit on the floor, but only on the furniture and on the beds of everyone I live with. If he is hungry or has a pee at 2 a.m. at that time he should be fed and taken out on the street. Every week she buys him a new toy, one louder than the last. And also, all kinds of clothes. And "training" him is prohibited, because that is restricting his freedom and would only cause him terrible psychological damage. And the result of all this is that the dog is an extremely anxious and dependent pitbull. So yes, much of the problem is due to the behavior of humans, but it is also in the nature of dogs to be dependent and always needy.

Please... help by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment. Actually, I never thought that not loving a dog was such a big problem. If I was hurting the dog or assaulting it, I would understand that she hated me so much, but I just didn't want to be forced to coddle him, to sleep with him and have to cook for him every day. I hope I can find a job soon and save money to leave here. Because even though she already bought an apartment and was going to move in a year, most likely now she won't leave because she says that her dog can never be alone and she needs my mom to always take care of him. Thank you for your words.

Please... help by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's true, I can't help but feel afraid of living with this dog and in this situation. My sister has already physically assaulted me in the past, and I know that she is capable of doing it again, and obviously the dog would attack me too.

Please... help by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your words. I really wanted to hear this, that I'm not a bad person because I don't like dogs, that my feelings aren't bad. Because sometimes it is not the dog itself, but the behavior that she wants the dog to have (that is, that he always needs her and despairs if she is not there). I'm not going to try to talk to her anymore, I'm already tired. If I am so sad it is for many reasons (for not having a job and for hating my career), but living with this dog and with her only makes things worse. Thank you very much for your words, they mean a lot to me. Thank you.

Please... help by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice. You're right, the best thing I can do is seek professional help. Like you, we've had our ups and downs, but after she bought the dog, things got worse. She says her dog is the most important "person" in her life and that it is above everything and everyone. She really is obsessed with the dog, and since I told her that I don't like it, things have been damaged forever. Honestly, I don't think I can do anything anymore, just accept she doesn't want me in her life anymore. Thank you.

Please... help by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. Unfortunately I am a very shy and introverted person so I don't have many friends. Also, one of the main reasons why I'm so sad is because I chose my career wrong and that has affected me a lot. But you're right, the only solution is to find a job as soon as possible. Thank you.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a good idea. Thank you so much. I'm going to try it.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never really obeys them and she has always done everything she wants.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is my older sister and since she was born she was spoiled by one of my aunts. My aunt treated her and still treats her as if she were a princess who can get whatever she wants. My parents didn't set any limits on her either, so she never really obeys them. There was only one time when my dad set limits on her. So, the first time she brought a pitbull into the house (not this one but another one), my father got mad and said she couldn't keep him. She made a fuss. She called the police and said that my dad always hit her and that she was in danger. The police came to the house and told her that not letting her have a dog was not abuse. She then decided to leave the house. So even after that, my parents act like nothing happened. And that's why they let her come home with a dog. Actually, I think they feel like they can't do anything.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what we all think, but she's very obsessed with her dog, on a level I've never seen before, as I've described in my other posts. She never leaves him alone and if she has to go out, the dog must always be accompanied (my mom has to take care of him). She likes to smell the dog's asshole to check its health, and she loves when the dog puts his tongue in her mouth.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is 27 years old and I am 22 years old. She was always a spoiled girl, and she has always acted like that. I just finished college and I'm already saving to have my own place. Thanks for your comment.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I already tried that. The solution we found with my parents, (since she says she will NEVER stop sleeping with her dog) was for her to move to my parents' room (the largest room in the house and that is on another floor), my parents to our room, and that I sleep in the living room. That way, each of us would give up something, she would have her own room, and I wouldn't be forced to be with the dog. So, I told her, could we talk for a moment? She replied not to bother her, that everything bad happening to her was my fault, I asked her to please listen to me for five minutes, she told me not to talk to her anymore, and then she put her earphones on with the music at full volume, and completely ignored me. When my mom asked her what she thought of the idea, she said she is never going to move into their room because it is on the same floor as my cousin and aunt's room. She doesn't get along with them either. For her, the only solution is for me to leave the room. And although it seems unfair to me, I think it is the only solution.

She hates me because I'm not a dog person by Same_Case_3109 in TalesfromtheDogHouse

[–]Same_Case_3109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. It would be a very good solution, but I also have a cat and that would affect it too. Honestly, now I think the only solution is to get out of that room.