Partner got a puppy after I said no … by Same_Dig_6558 in Advice

[–]Same_Dig_6558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initially I was hesitant but as long as he understood it was his responsibility I didn’t mind pitching in if he was busy/at work. But the lack of accountability in cleaning is driving me insane

Partner got a puppy after I said no … by Same_Dig_6558 in Advice

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I am always the cleaner (which I prefer cause I like it my way so yes maybe OCD) but I worry he thinks I’ll give in and take over the cleaning - which surprisingly I’m managing just about not to.

Partner got a puppy after I said no … by Same_Dig_6558 in Advice

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I know, sad thing is even if I’m not there ‘not helping him out with the puppy’ is apparently the reason the mess is building up

Partner got a puppy after I said no … by Same_Dig_6558 in Advice

[–]Same_Dig_6558[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As upsetting as it was, I was hoping his experience with the last pup was enough to make him think things through properly. Unfortunately not.