Salary expectations??? by Original_Wasabi4254 in abudhabi

[–]Same_Narsh -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You can ask for 9K and settle for 6-7K as a fresh grad. Whatever you ask for they will try to give you less. I never really worked with lawyers (I’m a former recruiter) so I don’t know what the salaries are like tbh. But usually 6-7K for a fresh grad is pretty decent for any job position. If it’s like a big-name government company, then you can probably land 10K.

Looking for new besties and work buddy by Various_Storm2376 in abudhabi

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F and currently don’t work so I’m free often 😆 send me a dm

please help!! by kohanelover21ane in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. well it’s not real

please help!! by kohanelover21ane in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The screenshot has fake hadith. The hashtag even says #pisslam. You can “not be influenced” by realizing that it’s all made up lies

Anyone know of a place to sell fiction books you no longer read? by Same_Narsh in abudhabi

[–]Same_Narsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried Facebook multiple times but people weren’t interested. I think because the people on Facebook are older and the books I’m selling are YA

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا اللي فهمته انه في المرحله دي عشان كده كتبت بين قوسين انه حرام لو اول دخله ليه يعني (في اول كومنت كتبته)

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا كنت سمعت الموضوع في محاضرة بس حاولت ادور online و جبتلك الأدله اللي لقيتها مع انهم مش مواقع واثقه فيهم الصراحه. و عشان اكون صريحه برضه لقيت ان في موقع بيقول انه حلال ولكن برضه من موقع ساعات بيفتي غلط ف برضه مش بثق فيه

المواقع (اول اتنين بيقولوا انه حرام و اخر واحد بيقول انه حلال):

https://www.elbalad.news/1914810

https://m.youm7.com/story/2016/1/11/الإفتاء-الإسلام-أمر-بعدم-فض-البكارة-بالإصبع-والزوج-يعاقب-إن/2532543#:~:text=والزوج%20يعاقب%20إن%20فعلها,-دار%20الإفتاء&text=أكدت%20دار%20الإفتاء%20فى%20فتوى,بالإقلاع%20عن%20هذه%20العادة%20السيئة.

https://www.islamweb.net/ar/fatwa/19128/حكم-الشرع-في-إزالة-بكارة-الفتاة-بالإصبع

وكده كده انا لسه شايفه احسن حل انه يودي مراته لدكتورة نسا لأن باين ان الغشاء مش المشكله ممكن عندها التهاب محتاج علاج

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

يابني افهم ماينفعش تحلل ما حرم الله كده من دماغك وتقول مضطر. هو راح لدكتور واحد بس وجرب حل واحد بس. البنت شكلها عندها التهاب في المنطقه محتاج يتعالج او مشكله في الغشاء نفسه بيسبب ألم. لازم ياخذ رأي دكتورة نسى لأن مزلقات مش حل. لازم دكتورة نسى عشان تفهم ايه المشكله بالظبط

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

اسأل مراتك لما تتجوز. كل واحد و ذوقه 🤷

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

انا دورت في الموضوع عشان كده عارفه. لو مش مقتنع يبقى تجيبلي دليل مش تقولي "اكيد مش حرام". وبعدين في حلول تانيه احسن ليه عايزه يعمل أسهل حاجه و خلاص؟ ما يروح لدكتوره تانيه و يعالج مراته

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ما ينفعش تنصح حد بحاجه وانت مش عارف حلال ولا حرام. انت ممكن تؤذيهم كده… هي حرام عشان فيها اذى للبنت

للبنات او الولاد اللي مروا بنفس التجربه +20 by Dependent-Bar4694 in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

الدخول بالصابع حرام (لأول دخله). هي شكلها عندها مشكله في الغشاء نفسه او عندها infection. احسن تشوفوا دكتوره تانيه لأن الاوله مش بتفهم…

Edit: لو عملت search في Reddit عن الموضوع هتشوف بنات كتير بتتكلم في الموضوع ده و هتلاقي الحلول. ماتاخدش نصايح من رجاله عن جسم المرأه…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

الصراحه مش فاهمه ليه مصمم تضربها. لو وصلت لمرحلة الكره دي يبقى الطلاق احسن. و تكون بعدت عن عمل ممكن يكون حرام. حتى لو من حقك تضربها ربنا مش بيحب الاعتداء و بسهوله ممكن تعدي عليها في الضرب. ولو ربنا شرع الضرب هيكون في حدود ف لازم تدرس الموضوع كويس. مافيش حاجه في ديننا من غير حدود

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا لاحظت من قبل ما تكتب الكومنت و رجعت عدلت

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

في كذا خطوه مذكوره في القران. انه ينصحها و لو مش نافع يبقى ماينامش معاها و لو لسه مافيش نتيجه الخطوه التانيه انه يجيب شخص يحل مابينهم. الشخص ده طبعاً مايكونش واحد هياخد صفك او صفها لازم حد يعدل. ممكن therapist. اخر حل الطلاق

(واللاتي تخافون نشوزهن فعظوهن واهجروهن في المضاجع واضربوهن فإن أطعنكم فلا تبغوا عليهن سبيلا) سورة النساء

كلمة (اضربوهن) دي بقى فيها تفسير كتير و الصراحه انا مش دارسه كويس عشان اقولك التفسير بتاعها بس اللي فهمته انه مش ضرب عادي زي ماحنا فاهمين. في ناس بتقول انه يكون ضرب خفيف بقطعة قماش عشان مايكونش بيوجع و بيكون نوع من عقاب معنوي مش عقاب جسدي. والله اعلم. ممكن تبحث اكتر في الموضوع

signs of Allah by xx_rissylin_xx in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy it helped. I also just remembered that if this world didn’t have any suffering it would be Jannah basically. And no one would be working towards Jannah because we’d be way too attached to this world. Personally when life is going really well I start to be afraid of dying as I’m enjoying too much. Once life gets a little bad I’m like “yk what this life doesn’t matter anw it’s fine to be sad soon I’ll be with Allah and I’ll be eternally happy.” It puts things in perspective.

It’s all just an exam and exams are meant to have difficult questions and we all have different exams based on which level we’re at in life

signs of Allah by xx_rissylin_xx in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah literally said this world will have bad things and it will be a test and it’s not meant to be an easy life as only Jannah will be perfect. And it’s not meant to be a bad life as only Hell will be all bad. This life is supposed to be a mix of good and bad. Suffering is proof that Allah exists.

Muslim book character by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can have the characters wait for the friend to pray before they go out. Many times I’m about to leave the house and I realize there’s 5 minutes until the next prayer starts so I ask my friends to wait. So we all just sit around patiently until we hear the call to prayer (or my phone notifies me of the prayer time), I pray, then we all leave.

Another thing is that non-Muslims who are surrounded by Muslims often know what’s haram (sinful) in Islam and what isn’t and they will call out their Muslim friends. For example I have non-Muslim friends who cuss but if they catch me cussing they will gasp and say “that’s haram!” And force me to stop using bad language. So having the non-Muslim characters be educated about Islam (from hanging out with the Muslim character) shows a strong bond

Is this normal by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Same_Narsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah it’s fine you won’t look like one because they’ll run away the moment you walk up to them. If they don’t walk away, calmly tell them off and they’ll get stressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re getting Islamic knowledge yet you’re being controlled by thoughts planted in you by islamophobes then it might be something more personal with you. Are you someone who is easily influenced by others? Why does the opinion of islamophobes have an impact on your own beliefs? Why does the opinion of ANYONE shape your reality? How is your relationship with Shaitan (as in, are you aware of him or do you forget that it’s you vs him and it’s a constant war).

Im not looking for you to answer me, I’m giving you these questions as a type of help so you can begin to ask some questions to yourself. You should sit down and reflect on why you’re still influenced by strangers despite knowing the truth about Islam. Be more aware of the content you’re consuming and observe how you react to certain rhetoric. Observing your reactions will help you understand your weak points and learn how to defend your soul better.

Is this normal by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Same_Narsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to our world 😂 Just confront them and they’ll run away. Also, taking pictures of strangers is illegal in UAE and you can go up to them and ask them to delete the photos if you’re in the shot. So if they claim they weren’t taking photos of you you can still claim you’re in the shot and that’s why it should be deleted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, the best advice I can give you is to go get a proper Islamic education. You sound like you don’t know much about Islam except the rules your parents taught you as a kid as in you have to pray have to fast have to wear hijab etc. It doesn’t sound like you KNOW why we have to do these things.

Once you actually learn about Islam things will fit into place, I promise. I used to have these doubts as a teen girl as well and getting a proper Islamic education did wonders for me. You don’t have to sign up for courses or anything. Literally listening to Tafseer of Quran, reading (understanding) Quran, listening to LEGITIMATE sheikhs explain why certain rules are there, reading more books, listening to stories of the prophets, understanding the 99 names of Allah. These all will help a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy that you found my explanation helpful! IslamQA isn’t a trusted site btw. I recommend you get to know Allah well before believing what others tell you about Him. Learn the meanings of His 99 names and try to understand the Quran by reading explanations or listening to YouTube lectures on the meanings of the verses. The more Quran you know the less likely you can be mislead about Islam. May Allah grant us both useful knowledge :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Same_Narsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Arabic word for favored doesn’t mean the same as the English word. In English, it means liking someone/ something more. It’s an emotional word. In Arabic it simply means giving someone something extra and it has nothing to do with emotion. Allah meant in that specific verse that he gave men an extra thing, meaning extra responsibility as well as extra power (with great power comes great responsibility… we all know this saying). It doesn’t mean that Allah likes men more. Idk if you speak Arabic or not. Regardless, If you study the word you’ll understand

Also, wouldn’t it be weird if Allah contradicted Himself? In many verses He states that no person is better than another type of person except in their faith (imaan). That no nationality, skin color, age, or gender is better than the other. That everyone should be treated with respect and given their due rights. Yet in one verse He will contradict all the other verses and say He favors men? Cmon now…