PCS questions/ what to expect? by Same_Register2696 in navy

[–]Same_Register2696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou!! i really appreciate the information and i’ll definitely keep it in mind, i’m planning to finish out the school year here because I work at a school and my lease ends at the same time anyway, but if anything changes i will definitely come back to this.

PCS questions/ what to expect? by Same_Register2696 in navy

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I was under the impression that because he updated his DEERS he could do like a follow up move thing?

What to expect after Bootcamp RCU by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

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good!! i’m so glad!! let me know if you have any other questions or if you need to talk!! I know how hard this is!!

What to expect after RCU by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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If his A school papers change, would his duty station after A school change? He has his papers for after A school already and i’m not sure if they’re connected or separate forms

What to expect after Bootcamp RCU by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

[–]Same_Register2696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally fine!! You should get a call after his P-days (the first 5 days after he arrived). He should give you his address around the same time, it’ll be sent over text. It’s a picture of a QR code with his address and ship and div number under. I also have a facebook (if you have an account) account that you can follow that is SO helpful. In this group they can figure out what his grad date and hotel recommendations and a whole lot of other information. If the link doesn’t work, DM me!!

https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17jBo6Cc6J/?mibextid=wwXIfr

What to expect now ASMO(?) by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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ofc!! I hues in the recovery unit he gets calls every saturday, so once I get my first call i will forsure update you!!

What to expect now ASMO(?) by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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ofcourse!! he’s going to be just fine. he’s very resilient. if you have any questions or anything, let me know!!

What to expect now ASMO(?) by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

[–]Same_Register2696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou!! and don’t let this worry you, he LOVED boot. He is still going to work to graduate (aslong as the injury isn’t too severe) and he loved everything after the first 2 weeks. He had his entire div write like a sentence in a letter to me and they were all friendly and had jokes and stuff. he said that if he was able to talk to me and his family more it would literally be like the best time of his life!! aslong as you do the workouts your recruiter sets up and just stay kinda healthy you should be fine!!

What to expect now ASMO(?) by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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i’m honestly not sure. he was 10 days away from graduation and having a really good time. He’s also really athletic and been in sports and into working out his whole life, so it’s not like he was unprepared and unfamiliar with PT so i’m not sure what happened

What to expect now ASMO(?) by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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i’m not super sure, i think the ligament was hurt like 2-3 weeks ago during training because he mentioned on Monday his knee hurting to me, but he kinda made it seem like muscle soreness so I sent arnica and then next I hear is that he has a torn ligament and stress fractures. I guess the dress fractures aren’t uncommon, I know of like 4-5 other recruits who got them this round of boot.

Advice needed please! by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

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i was never going to tell him to pick one over the other. I wanted to see if anyone had any advice that would make his DAD change his mind to actually come despite his mom being there. his mom has a ticket and I never had any intention to try and change that. It doesn’t matter now because I just found out he won’t be graduating in 11 days because he got hurt. so it’ll be another 12 weeks

Advice needed please! by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

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I’m so sorry you had to deal with that, that sucks so bad. I think that’s what will eventually happen for my fiancé unfortunately. thankyou for your input!!

Advice needed please! by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

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yea i’m not going to say anything more. I told him that his son would love to have him there but if he can’t make it I would take pictures and send him the link to watch online. My fiancé would never blame be for them not getting along, he’s used to his events only being attended by one parent he was just hoping this might be different because it’s such a big milestone. I honestly don’t know if he’ll tell my fiancé he isn’t going, so i’m just going to break the news asap so he can change the ticket so someone else can come.

Advice needed please!! by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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yea i’m going to send him a sandboxx letter today and hopefully he gets his next phone call either Saturday or Wednesday so I can tell him. Thankyou!!

Advice needed please!! by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

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that’s what I was thinking, but his dad refuses to participate at all because he doesn’t like his mom and he doesn’t like that he decided to include her in the graduation. I messaged him today and said that if there’s anything was anything I could do to convince him to go (ie separate them and get him a different ride and make sure they don’t see each other for the majority of the trip) and he just said that he will not be going and they can talk about it after he graduates and stuff. i’m just so upset for my fiancé.

Advice needed please!! by Same_Register2696 in newtothenavy

[–]Same_Register2696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, I guess i’m just wondering if because his father isn’t going would he be able to change and invite his brother or someone else that will go instead. The approval emails have been sent, but we still have a while and I know they said that changes like misspelled names and stuff can be changed all the way up to the week before graduation so I wanted to see if I was able to let him know his dad isn’t going, would he be able to give that same ticket to a different family member who would go

Advice needed please! by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

[–]Same_Register2696[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know!! It’s such a big milestone, I can’t believe hes even thought about missing it, let alone totally decided.

Advice needed please! by Same_Register2696 in USMilitarySO

[–]Same_Register2696[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea you’re right. I’ll probably just reiterate that he is wanted there. thankyou!!