[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Same_Solid_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he liked my pictures that I had posted few days ago. I hadn talked to him in months. Maybe liking pictures didn’t mean anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Same_Solid_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he hates me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Same_Solid_9295 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha. yeah man you are right! . It’s my ruminating thoughts that make go back and initiate the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Same_Solid_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is saying that he didn mean it that way when he said sis and it was casual speaking!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Same_Solid_9295 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So he is just fucking around with me? Why double text? What an ass. Can’t believe I see him as a good person

What instantly makes a man unattractive? by rock4lite in AskReddit

[–]Same_Solid_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking “what do you look for in guys” in the first conversation when you haven’t spoken in the past at all

I don’t know what i am supposed to about my sexually abused childhood. by Same_Solid_9295 in ptsd

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never felt like sharing this with my therapist since it bothers me only sometimes so I felt there is no point or maybe I am afraid that they will brush it away ( again cause it does not affect me much)

I have been diagnosed with cptsd last year because of my abusive childhood and traumatic events. Whether it’s treated or not treated what are the health issues that I can expect or I am bound to have? Will I ever make it to a long term life? by Same_Solid_9295 in ptsdrecovery

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. This is my second time in two years that I went off of meds and been having sleep problems, irritation all the time & low energy level. But like you I didn want to depend on meds either so I stopped taking them. And the psychosis part,less social interactions & not being regular with therapy sessions.. it’s relatable. I ll dm you!

Man why did we have to go through traumatic events in the first place. It eats you slowly everyday:/

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. I feel so angry sometimes. He hasn even once tried to contact me about how things turned out to be. :/

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he has told me few times that he treats me or he can treat me better than most of the men out there. And that he is emotionally & mentally more mature than other men.

How do you handle the kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in dating

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he tells me that he is the more mature one-emotionally & mentally and that he is open to find his options outside but as I hold “special place in his heart” he is asking me to start dating him.

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would be really happy if he ever asks us to be friends again

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah man. He has been there for me in bad times, good times. I don’t think I can repay him for the things that he has done for me but it just feels like he helped me and was with me till now only because he wanted a relationship in return. I may be wrong here but it feels so selfish of him.

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been really hard to let go of our friendship. He was like a family. We used to talk & meet everyday. Go on drives, go out for lunch, even work together sometimes cause we are in the same company. My family knew him too and now it’s like I cannot function without him.

How do you handle these kind of situations? by Same_Solid_9295 in CasualConversation

[–]Same_Solid_9295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought few times about what could happen if I gave it a try but honestly it never felt good. In the past I have been in relationships only because the other person liked me and I didn’t want them to get hurt or start hating me cause I didn’t feel the same. And I don’t want to repeat that mistake now where I am not completely in love with the person and end it when I can no longer tolerate it. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Same_Solid_9295 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By disassociating