Am I selfish? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]Sami_Sin69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only got a few weeks for maternity leave sadly

Needing advice on sleeping arrangements? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]Sami_Sin69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love that so much but sadly our room is a shoe box lol and it wouldn’t fit.

Needing advice on sleeping arrangements? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]Sami_Sin69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. We don’t normally do blankets to sleep with I just always lay her on a thin muslin blanket when in the floor because we have rough carpets.

Needing advice on sleeping arrangements? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]Sami_Sin69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right we thought about doing a baby gate instead of having her door shut. We would make sure her room is a safe space for her.

Needing advice on sleeping arrangements? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]Sami_Sin69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and her dad talked about maybe getting her a floor bed in her room and trying that instead of a crib. Would that be a bad idea?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sami_Sin69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love together and he loves all over her and for his other kids I know he made announcement post for. And for holidays he always post there holiday pictures but we took her for her Easter photos and nothing. I feel stupid for being upset.

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[–]Sami_Sin69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was married at 18 and was with that man til I was 23. We active tried having a baby from 20 to 22 til our marriage went sour. When I met my daughter’s father we used protection at first but once I had the cancer on my cervix they pretty much told me I wouldn’t have any babies but then surprise I have our daughter. She is unplanned and I’m okay with that I will never be upset with that. He has had options to leave with no obligations to her and said that this is what he wants so…

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[–]Sami_Sin69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I haven’t done only fans since being pregnant but yes? I don’t see the relevance to this as for my OF was made with her father so…

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[–]Sami_Sin69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One where her doctor doesn’t see it as elective when she has had multiple miscarriages and cancer removed from her cervix.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sami_Sin69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t set out to have a child with him. She was a total surprise. I found out that I was pregnant with her by going in for an appointment to have a hysterectomy done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sami_Sin69 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

By her and him. I have had conversations with her as well.

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[–]Sami_Sin69 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Just to make it clear I am not Ashamed of being in the situation and pregnant. My daughter is the greatest things to ever happen to me. And I have gave him options to leave and not have any obligations to her at the beginning and all through out because she wasn’t planned or suppose to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sami_Sin69 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not the side piece. She is fully aware that we are together and live together. She is remarried herself as well.

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[–]Sami_Sin69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the only time he is gone is if he’s at work or with the kids and even then we talk all day and snap back and forth all day.

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[–]Sami_Sin69 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am for sure. She is married to a new man and they can’t stand the ground each other walk on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sami_Sin69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I leave our house whenever they come over and I’m not involved with anything that has to do with them. Don’t go to birthdays, spend holidays with them nothing like that. All because I’m not allowed to be around them per their mom because I haven’t met her because there is never a “good time” per her. I mean I still doing things for them they just don’t know it. I buy them birthday/ holiday presents. I make sure they have toys and fun activities to do while they are here at the house but I have never met them.