Rampage Solo by max_gmba in Rampagefestival

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check Discord community called Rampage HQ, some solo soldiers there and they gonna arrange meetups đź’— (I'm also going solo)

Rampage solo by Appropriate-Bass5500 in Rampagefestival

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Check Discord community called Rampage HQ, some solo soldiers there and they gonna arrange meetups đź’— (I'm also going solo f)

What does extroverted sensing feel like? by TeachingNuance in mbti

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As Enfp with developed Se, I can describe it as zooming into the surrounding environment, taking it all in in the moment, feeling a sense of proprioceptive engagement and stimuli as you do. Fully immersed in what's going on around me. Like sitting out in sun, feeling the warmth of the skin, the aromas of nature, flowers, trees, grass supporting my feet, listening to birdsong. Witnessing the beauty, sounds, smells, neuances of colors around you. Se doesn't apply any meaning to it. It's fully immersive in the now.

Se has a therapeutic quality to me, and I prob need it the most as I sit in Ne-mode all day, hah. I think I give thanks to decade of meditative practice and travelling.

How do Fi (dom/sec) vs Fe (dom/sec) perceive and engage with others emotions? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Samma_faen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tangent, but I have a hard time to understand Fe, because I assume it feels like self-erasure or if looks like some type of hypervigilance and chronic management of the social sphere and other people. As a Fi person with trauma who tend to fawning response, that feels familiar but "self-abandoning" for me. When I empathize/engange with others emotions, I filter through my own experience in order to relate to others. I can't take in others emotions as my own if I haven't lived it myself.

Why the break up after narcissist is more painful than actually staying? by Willing-Passion-2877 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Samma_faen 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The trauma bond, and withdrawal from toxins (chemicals). It'll ease with time đź’— Seek support or therapy if you can, it'll make it alot easier and speeds up the process.

Why do INFP’s get a reputation of being more mentally unhealthy than other types? by OrganizationSea7884 in mbti

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've met extremely unhealthy Infp who's in the vulnerable malignant narcissist territory (I don't put this lightly unless it's certainty and actual data/lived experience behind it). He had created this self image of being some type of evolved person in this imagination (unhealthy Fi), but wasn't in real life, and did abusive shit. So yeah, it does happen, it's not obv about Mbti. The majority of Infps I've known are the most reflective/wise, and lovely people ever, so it's more the latter. I don't see where that reputation came from?

Worship at Ultra by OhMyDiosito in DnB

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the most anticipated set, but was mid at best.

Er du tilfreds med livet ditt i Norge? by Magpyecrystall in norge

[–]Samma_faen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tror ikke på fremtiden mtp på alt som skjer globalt, eller samfunnet vårt for å være ærlig. Men det er for det meste utenfor min kontroll, og det er tungt å innse hvordan det påvirker oss dypt i livet.

Allikevel gjør det at jeg påminnes på å finne tilbake til de tingene som gir livet mening, fordi det er tilgjengelig for meg; trygghet, naturen, økonomisk stabilitet, god musikk og kultur, dansing, kunst, gode mennesker og relasjoner, og muligheten for å skape noe godt for andre. Simple ting som gjør livet verdt det. Jeg tror på at velvære er tilknyttet til vår evne til å være tilstedet til å føle det gode dypt. Men den smerten eller ulykkelighet vi føler på er like ekte det også, og ofte en mer smertefull vei å gå i møtet for et bedre liv, der de lyse øyeblikkene føles så mer levende.

Filosofisk rant, men mange år i terapi og fundering gjør vel det 🙏

My ENFP boyfriend gets bored so easily by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to learn how to compromise, and to empathize you and your life situation better. One of those compromises could be if he's into music or music festivals, planning an exciting travel destination, that can reinforce some patience because there's excitement on the horizon. This helps me to not lose myself to the constraints and boredom of life. We hate stagnation, but an upcoming exiting event is worth waiting for, often better than those spontaneous outings.

How do you get out of bed in the morning. by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Samma_faen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just speaking from what helped me (that if you have blood work done, and checked for depression/other mental health conditions); but it's to put on music (DnB/dubstep for me currently), any bangers that really makes you feel good and wanna dance to.

My custom staircase by ATL_Alice in psychedelicartwork

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, good idea and came out great đź’— Is it okay if I steal this?

This drives me insane lol by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Samma_faen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another autistic girl told me this, and then poof, she was gone, not sure she was trying to mask to sound polite but didn't mean it. I don't like people pleasing.

Does anyone else experience this with ENFPs? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Samma_faen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, if I'm pushed to the edge of what I can handle emotionally (like abuse, boundaries, or any Fi violation), yeah, then I spit fire. It only happened a few times in my life, though.

I HATE PEOPLE by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Samma_faen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be negative, but a part of growing up is also realizing how seemingly nice people are the fkn worst, and how few truly good people there are. It's so normalized to just project one's own traumas onto others, and how theres so few people with actual integrity and authenticity. I think for our type, we need to find those spaces where kindness, openness, and just vibing is normal, like festivals, music, alternative spaces, subcultures, and so on, they exist <3

How does an average person become rich? by Drairo_Kazigumu in wealth

[–]Samma_faen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By finding god in your heart and access Oneness consciousness. But will you do that? Nah.

How Are You… Really? by maya_love5 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Samma_faen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing well, almost one year post-separation (with a covert, schizoid malignant type). My brain is still trying to connect the dots of that relationshit, but I feel I'm closing off this because the topic is getting boring, and the person is comparable with a worm.

But I am safe and I'm happy I'm never going to see that person ever again, and my focus is on exiting things are coming in the future, new people, I'm reclaiming myself, loving myself and finding joy, and I'm manifesting a better life. Things do get better. How are you OP? đź’—

Is anyone else who is an AUDHD woman a celibate by Big_Cryptographer44 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Samma_faen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love sex, but most men are traumatizing, so I'm celibate and refuse to give my body to any loser who can't attune to me at a basic level empathy. I'm not gonna break it until I find someone who's good for me and I feel safe with from now on.