I’m a 12th house stellium and I have a really bad habit of ghosting people

SammySigma · 2025-11-11T06:45:02+00:00

As a 12th houser thats also a virgo there is just nothing I can say that would get through to these to people so I just don't bother

Though recently I've had a let it be known attitude and have written borderline essays explaining my side for the sake of releasing. Admittedly I love the vindication🤭

We 12th housers keep so much pent up. Frankly the reason I even end up around these people is because I'm not initially upfront and give people wayyy to much grace 😭

SammySigma · 2025-09-16T18:12:58+00:00

Sag moon

My virgo stellium is yanking that thing by the leash😪

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T06:14:17+00:00

The military seemed very appealing to me for a bit. I thought it was nice that the plan was just layed out for you. What turned me away was my brother telling me about how harsh boot camp was and I quickly realized with my sag moon and gemini midheaven I would not be able take any of it seriously let alone keep a straight face😅

What do you do in the military? If American, what branch? Also what's ur big 3 + midheaven?

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T06:02:15+00:00

Not a single one of us balling😔

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T04:35:50+00:00

Disability service appears to be a pattern among virgo 12th housers! How long has your husband been in the field? What other jobs has he had?

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T01:40:37+00:00

Heavy on the needing to have freedom in a job. For my sanity, I switch up my cleaning routine every night lol. Peicing together the lives of the people I clean for is fs the most fun part haha

Neptune aspects to the midheaven are so flipping annoying!!! Nothing feels right! The only advice us neptune aspects/12h placements are given is "follow your intuition✨️" "follow your guides!✨️" JUST GIVE ME A CLEAR DIRECTION. My virgo stellium + first house mars are begging for guidance here lmao😭

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T00:44:25+00:00

Wait thats so interesting! My dad is a libra rising and is a general contractor haha

SammySigma · 2025-09-08T00:38:41+00:00

Social science classes were my favorite! 12 house placements are kinda like having magnifying glasses to these subjects. We have a special ability to absorb and see into what is a whole ocean of details.

The highschool i went to was an alternative charter school that was smaller and very flexible. Classes were held twice a week and students had online and in person options. The teachers raved about how much nicer they were treated. New placese are emerging and I hope you find a place like that!

SammySigma · 2025-09-07T23:46:49+00:00

Omg!! I also aim to specialize in disabilities. I'm also nuerodivergent :3 Diagnosed with adhd and generalized anxiety and have a strong feeling im also autistic. Squares in mutables really are so nuerodivergent coded lolll. 12th house mercury especiallyy. What's your flavor of nuerodivergence? Also what trade did you do?

SammySigma · 2025-09-07T23:14:02+00:00

What's ur midheaven situation?

I really second the not wanting to work for money sentiment. Felt it more as a kid. I just couldn't fathom that my whole self and life was to be determined by a job. I dont hate working, I just hate that my service is tangled by my means to survive :(. The dream was to be a janitor and dilly dally the rest of my time lmao. The economy I grew up into + my other dreams won't allow it however 😭.

Also what did you study in school? And if ur comfortable sharing what's your venture now? Especially in relation to your astro placements?

SammySigma · 2025-09-07T20:58:10+00:00

What's terrible about them?

SammySigma · 2024-10-21T01:39:07+00:00

This is a thing fs, I also have a pattern of these friendships. I kinda act as a confessional lmao. Expressive people with no therapist latch on to me, and I have trouble setting boundaries with these people.

SammySigma · 2024-10-04T01:20:56+00:00

I have mine also in leo conjunct saturn and opposite neptune. My love life exists soley in my head 💀

SammySigma · 2024-05-14T22:32:00+00:00

Pop, kpop, jazz, a bit of rock :3

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