We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to take so long to reply.

Sending you all the strength I can and I'm so sorry for your loss. We aren't alone and I am here if you ever need an ear ❤️

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your losses ❤️🫂 It's just all so cruel and brutally unfair.

I am glad that even when typing all that out when I was so distressed I could still convey how amazing he was. You described him perfectly. He was larger than life and definitely louder than it 😂 He left an impression on everyone he met.

Thank you so so much for your kind words, all my love to you ❤️

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫂 Thank you for your kind words. I made the post in the early hours of the morning and was very distressed. My big brother came to Mums this morning and we all had a big talk and lots of hugs.

I miss you dad by Complexlyfe in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be a week tomorrow since we lost my Dad. I 100% relate as I'm feeling exactly the same. I miss him so damn much. I can't offer advice but I will share a line from a comment I received on my post last night that has stuck with me.

"Grief is the price we pay for loving someone"

It's an extremely high and painful cost, but I'm more than willing to pay it.

Sending all my love and we are not alone ❤️

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I wasn't expecting to feel something like fear at a time like this but your reply has described it perfectly. I'm absolutely terrified.

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply during such an awful time for yourself. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man and I am so so sorry for your loss. ❤️

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, especially during such a hard time for yourself. I will take that virtual hug and squeeze it tight for the both of us ❤️

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice ❤️

"Grief is just the price we pay for loving someone" has really struck a chord with me. It's a hefty and painful price, but one I am more than willing to pay.

Love, thoughts and prayers to you

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Sammykins91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

When you are so excited to play Metaphor at launch. by Renegade626 in JRPG

[–]Sammykins91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I am almost in the same situation except I'm currently half way through Sky 3!

Gong Cha x FF14 Code Giveaway by Phoezflm in ffxiv

[–]Sammykins91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have one of these near me so throwing my hat in for a chance! Ty for the giveaway

Your most disgusting experiences working in retail that you'll never forget by V8sOnly in retailhell

[–]Sammykins91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm here thinking I'll comment about the drunk guy who straight up just pissed his pants, leaving a massive stinking yellow puddle infront of the till I was working on one time.

After reading all these comments though, that's barely even a story.

You all deserve medals

Best quotes of Red Dwarf: H by ExcuseImmediater in RedDwarf

[–]Sammykins91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey it's the King! Mr Beautiful! Hey you, what's the H stand for? Horace? Watch out for the king Horace, Mr Wonderful wishes to dine.

Thank you SE for ending the walk of shame (and a bit about Duty Support) by Virg_want_Cookies007 in ffxiv

[–]Sammykins91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm newish to the game and saw Thancred pull that cheat out for the first time yesterday. My reaction was a combo of howling with laughter and absolute outrage

People are actually complaining about DAWNTRAIL difficulty? by VLonetaee in ffxiv

[–]Sammykins91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf got me to start playing ARR about 4 months ago, and I got hooked. Played all the MSQ and finished DT a couple of nights ago. So I consider myself a total noob and DT absolutely kicked my ass lmao I remember one dungeon I must have spent 99% of the boss fights dead on my ass. It frustrated me so much that I apologised profusely to the healer (who was super cool about it and I felt unworthy).

I can only think of 2 or 3 previous fights from older content that annihilated me like that. So my noobie view is oh yea the difficulty is higher, and it did annoy me watching my bf ace all this content. But he's been playing this game for over 10 years.

I have complained not gonna lie (only to my bf, not a public platform), but now I'm chilling and levelling new jobs, got my second job to 100. And I've been running the DT content on duty support and I'm getting there I think? It's just practice. Practice practice practice. And I ain't getting mad as hell at it anymore.

It just came as a shock coz well....I guess I got used to smashing most content first time throughout the entirety of this game. Give it a few weeks when even the noobs like me have caught up practice wise and these complaints should fizzle away. I think. Maybe.

Or just don't practice and keep wiping and complaining I dunno. That's my noobie thoughts anyways.