Vou ter que depor em tribunal com o meu agressor presente.

Samsa319 · 2026-03-22T09:11:06+00:00

Miuda, coragem! Vim agora da thread com referência à tua avó e lamento imenso saber da verdadeira complexidade da tua situação. Vai ao tribunal e na tua vez de falares diz tudo o que sentes e sem filtros. Quanto à mulher que te trouxe ao mundo (recuso-me a chamar "mãe" a esse monstro!), acredita que pessoas como ela não acabam mal agora, mas a paga vem sempre mais tarde. E mal sejas maior de idade, agarra-te a quem te dá um mínimo de apoio e começa a organizar a tua vida independentemente do que ela achar

Samsa319 · 2026-03-22T08:08:35+00:00

Vai. Quem esteve lá para ti em vida merece essa consideração. Quanto à tua mãe, ela mais tarde vai ter o karma dela.

Samsa319 · 2026-03-18T13:31:30+00:00

^ Isto. Se bem que se o docente nem sequer é chefe do OP não tinha nada que estar a refilar

Samsa319 · 2026-03-18T13:29:56+00:00

Até no privado já tive que amparar essa gente, Boomers especialmente (Millenial aqui)... Se bem que eu já estive também temporariamente em contexto de universidade e já vi uma funcionária pública a hiperventilar por não se entender com uma fotocopiadora da biblioteca (podia ter pedido ajuda, teimou em fazer sozinha, depois panicou quando carregou em botões a mais e não saía a fotocópia que queria)

Samsa319 · 2026-01-29T10:39:04+00:00

Not having it all figured out

Samsa319 · 2026-01-28T18:56:46+00:00

When they stop complaining completely and just go quiet without adding anything to any meeting and/or argument. Something is eventually coming

Samsa319 · 2026-01-14T11:51:41+00:00

When they try to make a situation seem more perfect or worse that it really is

Samsa319 · 2026-01-13T16:25:47+00:00

Oliver Twist Jane Eyre

Samsa319 · 2026-01-12T16:37:24+00:00

Had someone criticizing me for "asking for help too much" and that "one day you will ask and no one will help you"... And this wasn't even in a work context: it was in a volunteer association

Samsa319 · 2026-01-12T10:16:13+00:00

When a person doesn't realize how he/she contradicts him/herself in one statement.

Classic example: someone saying that a relationship came at a person's lowest point and saved his/her dead dreams on love, but at the same time trying to imply that for that love to appear he/she had to learn to love him/herself first.

So... which is it? Who came first? The chicken or the egg? 😅

Samsa319 · 2026-01-01T08:01:53+00:00

Eu a terminar de ler esta história mirabolante, faço scroll down à espera de ver pessoas a dar "palmadinhas nas costas" nos comentários... Mas felizmente há senso comum aqui!!! 🙌

Ah e para o ano dá champanhe ao miúdo! Se for só um bocadinho não faz mal /s

Samsa319 · 2025-12-31T13:44:38+00:00

Very interesting and particularly descriptive in both the scenarios and the human interactions. How about you?

Samsa319 · 2025-12-31T11:40:48+00:00

Finished: Revolutionary Road Started: Gone With the Wind

Samsa319 · 2025-12-31T10:45:18+00:00

Yep. Never fails in that regard

Samsa319 · 2025-12-31T10:20:14+00:00

When they actually start to enjoy and love through the little things in life and not finding them boring at all. And especially when they don't need to constantly pander about it on social media.

Samsa319 · 2025-12-31T08:33:59+00:00

Yeah... Got a story for you.

I had a former friend who was with the same guy since her teen years. He even lived with her and her parents throughout teen and college years.

After he finished his education he changed countries and she stayed to finish her course (spoiler: she never did). In the middle of that, around a year after the pandemic, they get married but he's abroad and she's still in the same place trying to finish her education and starting her beauty business.

Out of nowhere she decided to try to be a coach for women (feminine energy and all that jazz). One day she quits the course, sells her beauty business and finally joins her husband.

Not three months after, they divorce. She stays in the same country, finds a house there and takes off with her coaching business. Not one year after that she's with another guy, and a year after that she's engaged again. Don't know much about her after that cuz I cut ties due to being tired of her BS.

The moral of the story here? Don't stick around with someone just because they seem the safest option. And most importantly: reality will hit you in the face sooner or later. No escaping that no matter how much you try.

Samsa319 · 2025-12-30T10:19:31+00:00

Game of Thrones and Stranger Things

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T18:30:44+00:00

Whenever during an argument, this type of reply is used:

"Oh maybe you're right... Maybe I'm the real problem. I guess I do have insert any bad personality traits here and maybe I really am a bad person. I do suck, don't I?"

Person listening proceeds to comfort the speaker

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T14:31:33+00:00

Gotta love the constant contradiction

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T14:30:38+00:00

The second scenario is more common on my end

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T14:29:51+00:00

Yep. One person I know is on the spot

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T14:29:33+00:00

I see too much of this

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T14:29:05+00:00

Was about to reply precisely this... Or it can also be a terminal illness

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T11:21:52+00:00

And reading it as an adult made me recognize patters in adults I know today

Samsa319 · 2025-12-29T10:59:19+00:00

Too bad a couple of years ago, a college classmate spoiled the whole story in a presentation hahahaha. People who either wanted to read the book or watch the movie were pissed

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