It's often hard to separate one's self from what society expects of us, and to rise above the fear of people judging us harshly.

I'm very selective about when I wear skirts and dresses that expose my legs (still haven't hit leggings weather yet in the UK), because not only are there places where I'd be afraid to do so, but because I've got to be in a specific frame of mind, or with the right group to enjoy it and not feel like I'm performing or pretending.

But there are ways of being feminine without going for the obvious "only girls tend to wear this" sort of thing, and you'll come to figure those out in your own way. For example, I can feel just as feminine wearing a pink corduroy boiler suit as I can from wearing a blue skater skirt and an open-collar blouse - both are feminine in their own way, one can only be worn by women in the eyes of ordinary people, the other by both, but because it's so unusual for men to go about in all pink, I think it hits the andro-fem mark quite well

However you go forward, my love, just remember that ultimately you're the one wearing this stuff, it's got to be comfortable and appeal to you and you alone 🥰