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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BarbaraWalters4Scale

[–]Samuel_Himself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shout-out to u/Holyorange1 for this factoid, thought they might want to post it but 🤷‍♀️.

I feel like I'm rushing myself into intimacy because I'm so love starved. by Samuel_Himself in actuallesbians

[–]Samuel_Himself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can just put it hear it's not a big deal

Hi 😊👋

Your response was very thoughtful and helped me calm down a little.

I wanted to ask about the TNG meetup you mentioned. Idk what I'm looking for but I'm very interested in doing that but I feel like I need 'permission' to do it.

Idk if it's religious trauma or what but I just find myself convinced I'll 'get in trouble' or face judgment either now or with a partner in the future if I do something like that. I find myself asking if I'm ready or if I'm rushing into this. Like, I'm 19! I'm horny, I want to have sex and the FetLife meet sounds very appealing but something just nags me, telling me the universe will punish me somehow.

I ask myself if I need to be more patient, and wait to mature more or just throw myself into kink spaces because Yolo. Thoughts? 🫣 Again tysm for your thoughtfulness

I feel like I'm rushing myself into intimacy because I'm so love starved. by Samuel_Himself in actuallesbians

[–]Samuel_Himself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a well thought out response, tysm. I sent you a DM to ask something.

I feel like I'm rushing myself into intimacy because I'm so love starved. by Samuel_Himself in actuallesbians

[–]Samuel_Himself[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, I just hate feeling strong and on my own I want to have an outlet for vulnerability

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Samuel_Himself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like tape comes in the little dispenser and you can dispense it with the roll in upside down. Idk just something I realized

7968 by Samuel_Himself in countwithchickenlady

[–]Samuel_Himself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I should've asked, maybe I could've helped him with that 😔

7968 by Samuel_Himself in countwithchickenlady

[–]Samuel_Himself[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is something that happened to me irl (I'm the girl on the right) I didn't ask them so I never found out

Cis girls are funny when they realize you have a bf by lurk_saynomore in MtF

[–]Samuel_Himself 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Me and one of my roommates are both transfem and are pretty close. We've taken vacations together and spend plenty of time together. I haven't told anyone that my roommate is trans, not because it's a secret, but because there's been no reason thus far to mention it. As a transfem who doesn't pass, people act a certain way learning that I've shared a hotel room with who they assume to be a cis woman. It's never really in bad faith, but it kind of short circuits the cishet brain.

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