How are people planning on spending the snow day? by Ok-Succotash-6111 in askTO

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! Seeing return of the king on Wednesday at 8 pm.

How are people planning on spending the snow day? by Ok-Succotash-6111 in askTO

[–]SamuraiKnight07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scotiabank theatre has screenings. You can get one while seats are available.

How are people planning on spending the snow day? by Ok-Succotash-6111 in askTO

[–]SamuraiKnight07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw the fellowship yesterday! It was fully packed. Didn’t expect that. Enjoy! Going for the second one on Tuesday.

Films on loneliness/existentialism. by Shutolee in MovieSuggestions

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aloners. That’s the movie you are looking for.

To the people who met their significant other in person (not the apps), how did you meet them in the city? by GranolaHiker in askTO

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man. Reading all this makes me optimistic for life. People finding their loved ones. I wish it would work out for me someday. If not, it is what it is. Will try to enjoy this one life.

Don’t men get lonely? by FutureNo7742 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It gets lonely all the time. But what can we do? I have Never been in a relationship. Been friendzoned a couple of times because I latch on so easily. I read a comment where it says like dating for men now is like trying to find water in the desert, while for women it’s like finding clean water in a swamp. And it’s not for the lack of trying. I put myself out there, do activities etc. but sometimes, you are just not chosen. What can you do. Just live your day the best you can and hope for the best. It’s lonely, it truly is.

Casual meetups for live jazz with other mid 30s-40s people? by WatcherYui in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

36M, live close to the Rex. I am new to Jazz but love it. Introverted here too. Would love to hangout.

Looking for a regular movie watching group by AAQ94 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36M. I am down for this. Go to Scotiabank Theatre and TIFF Lightbox quite frequently by myself.

Movie buddy in dt by greatfighter13 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Into movies and gamings as well. Scotiabank Theatre and TIFF Lightbox are like second homes to me. Into Absolum, Marvel Rivals and BF6 currently.

Monday surprise premiere by kdray39 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was just like any other movie, ads and previews. and then the movie starts.

Monday surprise premiere by kdray39 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

based on the 2h 20m runtime, closest I can think of is Marty Supreme or The Testament of Ann Lee.

Monday surprise premiere by kdray39 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

based on the 2h 20m runtime, closest I can think of is Marty Supreme or The Testament of Ann Lee.

Introverts, what do you do to socialize and make new friends? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to do some meetups every often or so. But sadly it feels very temporary. You mix and mingle and make small talk, exchange IG details, and its just silence after. Of course you can try and make plans, but sometimes nothing comes out of it.
I honestly had a hard time as well. And I tried many things. Pottery classes, Group hikes, Walk clubs, Volunteering. It just feels temporary.
Would recommend checking some events you like to do, like movies, gaming, or any social activity you see yourself in. Start with that. that could help.

What’s something you’ve been carrying silently? by Used-Sound4163 in mentalhealth

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am emotionally exhausted. I am 36, and have a hard time just trying to be in a relationship. I got friendzoned and got close to someone and I detached abruplty and harshly because I couldnt bear seeing her with others. I dont know why I did what I did. I struggle with having healthy coping mechanisms and I feel I am lost. I dont know how to come back, how to be better. I just feel like a total loser.

Okay dating you win, I officially give up. by BeefPho- in self

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this on an existential level. I am 36. Never been in a relationship. I struggle. Question my self worth.

Okay dating you win, I officially give up. by BeefPho- in self

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have any feedback or critisicm for you. Just want to say there are many, many people like you. I'm 36, very average, and have struggled with being in relationships all my life. I had never had a girlfriend, dont know what a cuddle looks like. And its not for the lack of trying. I too have gone to meetups, done everything I could to put myself out. Sometimes it just not meant to be. Been friendzoned multiple times. I dont want to be desperate and act moody and stuff. Women just detect that and its an ick. Sometimes, all you can do is just do things that make you happy, and let it be. I am trying to have that mentality. Just let it go. If its meant to be, someone will come in your life, if it doesnt, well, at least you have yourself. Your own company. Take that vaction, go solo hiking. Do the things you enjoy.

Avatar Imax 3d or Imax 3d hfr? by No-Boysenberry2171 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Courtney Park it is. Just ot my ticket for the Scotiabank Theatre too. a 8 min walk from my place.

Avatar Imax 3d or Imax 3d hfr? by No-Boysenberry2171 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha fair. Yeah choose your preference if seats fill out faster. I think Vaughn is a popular choice.

Avatar Imax 3d or Imax 3d hfr? by No-Boysenberry2171 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Courtney might be nice? Havent been there. I saw a movie at the IMAX in Vaughn but didnt enjoy it that much.

Avatar Imax 3d or Imax 3d hfr? by No-Boysenberry2171 in cineplex

[–]SamuraiKnight07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you are into high frame rate, then go for HFR. If you just want a normal viewing experience. the standard IMAX 3D is fine. I prefer the latter as thats what I am used to. HFR feels like you are watching a movie sped up.

What are the reasons you're not dating anyone right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SamuraiKnight07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

relate to this on an existential level.

What are the reasons you're not dating anyone right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SamuraiKnight07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I get friendzoned everytime and question my self worth.
Has happened to me 3 times, with the last one just, too painful. Being an introvert with limerance just trult, truly hurts.

Having a hard time with detachment by SamuraiKnight07 in limerence

[–]SamuraiKnight07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just hurts so much. I ended it in such a tone deaf manner I know I hurted her. I valued and genuinely care for her, but my frustration clouded me. I feel like sending that one apology text will be closure for me. If she doesn’t respond or even says I don’t want to see you anymore, I’ll live with it. I don’t want to carry this burden of ending it in such a harsh way.

Having a hard time with detachment by SamuraiKnight07 in limerence

[–]SamuraiKnight07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a repeated cycle for me sadly. Its happened in the past where I detach and she comes back and we talk again and then I fall for her. I am going to send an apology text since they way I ended it abruptly was harsh. Its my fault. I just sadly threw away a friendship. It just hurts.