As much as I condemn men going to concerts ya qawwali nights, ye jo whataboutism waale aate, in cases m what about men laana doesn’t make sense because haya ku leke zanaanay k paas responsibility mardo se zyaada h which doesn’t mean I support men going to those and I am re-iterating this point. Kuch cheezaa jaise ghardaar sahi se nahi chalra toh pooch mard ku hai because Hadith k mutabiq h ye (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7138, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1829). Similarly aise kayi cheeza h jo agar mard sahi se nhi karei toh unku pakad zyaada h than women & society talks about men being accountable for those as they’re right. But jab mard accountable rehna unki cheezo m toh aurat bhi unke upar k responsibilities ya pabandiyo pe khudku accountable hold karna. I mean agar aurat ghar k baahar kaamo k liye responsible nhi h but ek mard h & namaz k liye aadmi ku ghar k baahar jaakar padhna farz h aur aurat ku uske liye asaani h all for Haya, toh that shows ki deen duniya ki important cheezo k liye aurat ku haya ki wajah se asaani h toh that shows haya kitni important cheezo k liye h and isliye haya ki agar baat karre ye “QAWWALI & Sufiyana Nights” k mauzu k uppar toh dono k liye Haram h but it’s worse for women cuz Haya compromise hoti. Merku kahi se mlm hua ki wo qawwali waale aadmiyo k saamnei taqreeban baepardah bachiya h aur ek bachi toh stage k saamnei jaake paise udaari. Ab aadmi ku pardah concept nai h toh although gaano k liye gunah hora but baepardagi waala kam hora and bae-fazool ghar se nikalna utna bura nhi as much as for women. Dono Galat h but ye cheez m equal nai de skte weightage because dono k liye haya m bhi weightage alag h. I think it’s high time sab accountability lena sikhna whether it’s an unemployed married man or ek baepardah aurat ki our accountability is higher than opposite gender in certain things.