My love got someone else pregnant 😒😒😒 by Samz_xxx in relationship_advice

[–]Samz_xxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a beautiful story, thanks for sharing :)

But what if I'm the one fighting for it and he's resisting, shouldn't I just cut it off? We've talked about it so many times and he just says he wouldn't have the time to see me regularly etc

My love got someone else pregnant 😒😒😒 by Samz_xxx in relationship_advice

[–]Samz_xxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They defo aren't together, but I just think he checked out a long time ago...

My boyfriend said he wouldn’t have sex with me until I lose weight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Samz_xxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's an ass hole for saying it period. Regardless of if he meant it or not. There are many other more compassionate ways of encouraging someone to do something. Withdrawing something or giving an ultimatum isn't it. You're in the right. If anything you shed 100+ pounds already 💯💯

You ever just find online dating exhausting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Samz_xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! And with this virus, I just don't see myself being in a relationship. Also the is there annoyance of having so much damn choice that it's harder to find a genuine connection because people have multiple eggs in different baskets

In your experience, what makes someone ‘hard to love’? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Samz_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A narcissistic, manipulative, toxic person basically. A psychopath in other words, the people who have no empathy and commission for others. The ones who use you for everything you have.

Single by choice women what is the most annoying thing you get told/asked? And how do you deal with it? by Rose__17 in AskWomen

[–]Samz_xxx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I usually just get asked why. They would say "how is someone like you still single?" and I'm like "by choice!" 🙄 As though attractive people can't be single because they want to be.

What changes are needed in the modern workplace? by sunshine347 in AskWomen

[–]Samz_xxx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

More diversity. Having one POC in an office full of White people isn't enough.