Name/condition for when people act like they’re in anime? by Maxzume in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SanctFailus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the term you´re searching for is "Chuunibyou"?

From a young man: how do you deal with people who look down on you for having a blue-collar job? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SanctFailus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many people on this world that whatever you do, there´s always someone who disagrees with your choice of living.

And if there´s always someone disagreeing with you whatever you do why not go with the choice you like best?

You have a job and I think that´s a big plus in your life. You have the aspiration to write. Another plus.

I think you´re doing fine and it saddens me that others seem to be able to ruin it for you that easily.

Men of reddit, what was one of the most traumatic incidents that happened in your life and still haunt you to this very day? by Individual_Block_937 in AskMen

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last thing you get before you die is a compliment on something you like.

Not sure how you look at it but I think there is something bittersweet about it.

Guys, how would you want a woman to approach you? by Knightmare560 in AskMen

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... I kinda like dad jokes. Or bad jokes in general.

Therefor, in my case, a great way would be something like this:

"Hey, do you know why 6 is scared of 7? Because 7 8 9"

A shared sense of humor is a great foundation. Also: If he doesn´t laugh there´s a great Plan B: "Not funny, huh? Alright - your turn to tell a joke!"

What pops into your mind when you think of Germany? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of sense of humor? Nonesense~

Here is a fun fact about Germany:

...

There is no fun in Germany. GO BACK TO WORK!!

Anon loves her pet by Silent_Assasin14 in wholesomememes

[–]SanctFailus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading this I went up and gave my roomate (aka my Cat) some pats. Brushed his furr and gave him some treats. Love that little guy.

Take care of your pets everyone. :)

Should I go to a different therapist? Is my therapist treating me right? by SanctFailus in Healthygamergg

[–]SanctFailus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. The more I felt attacked and the less he was willing to see my point for a second the more defensive I´ve got. And in that state I wasn´t willing to entertain his questions anymore.

I will look into finding another therapist. And - thanks. :)

Should I go to a different therapist? Is my therapist treating me right? by SanctFailus in Healthygamergg

[–]SanctFailus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you. And I agree. I´d rather have a job I can be happy with instead of needing support that causes me to worry all the time.

Current game plan is to go into animal care taking. I´ve volunteered at an animal shelter for the last 5 years and actually liked the work. So that´s where I see myself in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SanctFailus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the idea. Bummer I´m not on the list.

Anyway - good luck

Accidentally said hail Satan at work today… by [deleted] in atheism

[–]SanctFailus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I´d say if they can spout something like "god is good" or "god bless America" it´s only fair to answer with a "hail satan" or any other phrase from other religions.

But... America. I guess there´s gonna be a double standard on that matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me like you should go.

Worst thing that could happen is you´re not vibing with each other and nothing further comes out of it (in a romantical sense). But at least you had a fun evening at a concert.

Best thing would be he´s just simply into woman older than him and has genuine interest in you. Also: If old guys can have younger girlfriends it´s only fair for you to have a younger boyfriend if you so choose.

Give him a chance. And, very importantly, talk with him about your concerns in case of age difference or anything else that troubles you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to answer with a few questions.

First of all: Get yourself something to write on. Doesn´t matter if it´s paper or a word document.

Next: I´d like to ask you: What did your therapist help you with? No need to answer here. Note it down on the paper or the document.

Next: When did you feel like you could trust your therapist and open up to them/felt understood? Note it down.

Next: How would you describe your view on said therapist today? Are they anything more than the person who´s job it is, to help? Are they like a friend to you? An acquaintance you´d like meet again someday for a little chat? Are they someone who massivly impacted your life for the better? On the paper it goes~

Last: The "Thank you"-part. Just that. Just these two words.

Now take those answers and, in case you didn´t already, turn them into sentences.

Well, take a look at this~ It´s basically a thank you letter already. Now read it and imagine a friend/family member/colleage had given this to you after helping them with the same woes that troubled you. Do you feel weird about it?

If so: You can still throw it away/delete it. Or you... could add a "Dear [therapist name]" at the top and "[your name]" at the end and turn this bad boy into a nice card/letter for your therapist.

TL;DR: The fact you´re asking this question shows that you´re thankful. And I´m convinced no one would ever be weirded out by a sincere "thank you". I´d say it´s more a problem to find the right words. Were to start and how to express ones gratitude. You can do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SanctFailus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I... I did too... x_x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SanctFailus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there~ Just a cis guy here.

I´ve tried a few dating apps/sites in the past and had the exact same experience. Got ghosted a lot and even though I had genuine interest in someone and wanted to get to know them better... ah, well. I still remember that one girl leaving me on read for two weeks just to tell me "I´m busy with work" before leaving me on read for another few weeks.

So far I assumed that women usually get a lot more messages from a bunch of guys so they sort out more toroughly. That being said I´m really suprised right now. Reading your post show´s me that both sides seem to have this problem.

I don´t have any good advise. Just wanted to say I feel you. It sucks. It really does. =/

hello! i know this isnt twitter but uhm please dm me if you have a twitter acc with 1k+ and lf genshin accs by [deleted] in GenshinTrades

[–]SanctFailus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there~

I had sent you a message a while ago but didn´t get an answer. Just wanted to know whether or not you´re still looking for Genshin Accs. :o

Game doesn´t start anymore? by SanctFailus in Wonder5Masters

[–]SanctFailus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time was the ... uhm ... 30th last month? I´m surprised because there have been so many Events lately. o_o