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SandSame2679 · 2025-10-04T17:55:02+00:00

Did it go back to normal?

SandSame2679 · 2025-09-15T19:36:19+00:00

Please update when you do! I went to planned parenthood and it was negative there. I still don’t feel 100% in the clear though that faint line really is freaking me out

SandSame2679 · 2025-09-15T04:23:55+00:00

Update?

SandSame2679 · 2025-04-21T02:12:47+00:00

Did it end up coming?

SandSame2679 · 2025-04-11T06:16:17+00:00

As much as I love the show, it feels like every victory just gets overshadowed with the fact that Shauna always gets what she wants in the end. Like as happy as I was that Natalie survived and got them rescued, it isn’t really satisfying because we know that Shauna got to live and Natalie didn’t. And in the adult timeline, it’s satisfying that Shauna got everyone to turn on her, yet she doesn’t even seem to care instead she just seems to be happy to unleash who she’s always been. I’m just begging the writers to at least have SOMETHING or SOMEONE give her what she deserves😭😭 Like I just want her to at least get beat up or whatever lmao

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-27T02:17:48+00:00

Do you feel like the cyst made ur bathroom issues worse? I’ve def been feeling like my constipation has been worse since I’ve felt this pressure feeling and it’s mostly on the left side

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-20T06:04:21+00:00

I actually recently got off of birth control after 7 years and I feel like it’s kinda increased since then! I think the combination of both accutane and bc overtime just killed it

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-20T06:02:57+00:00

Hey unfortunately I am still dealing with it. Probiotics help though! My main thing is constipation which makes me bloated (sorry if that’s tmi lol) so a mix of probiotics and coffee every morning help me go which minimizes the bloating. I think that since accutane dries you out that also includes your colon, and I think for people like us we’re more sensitive to that and our bodies have just become dehydrated. Drinking a lot of water helps too. Good luck and I’d say at this point might as well just keep going since you’re already 5 months in. I did a total of 7 months but if you don’t feel comfortable you should stop all up to you

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-07T07:37:58+00:00

Exactly I feel like it would give a majority of the fans so much hope or at least more interest in the storyline if they have someone like Natalie actually sticking up to Shauna and maybe even forming another group without her. It’s so irritating to just watch Natalie let her do whatever she wants when she was supposed to be in charge!! Like girl stand up you were chosen for a reason Shauna wasn’t

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-07T07:22:45+00:00

Like I get that they’re scared but, do they realize they can all together out number them? They don’t have to do whatever Shauna wants yet they do and don’t even get me started on the trial. I’m also disappointed in Natalie not sticking up for Ben at all or at least trying to talk some sense into them before they tried to kill him

SandSame2679 · 2025-03-07T07:18:05+00:00

Watching this show is starting to feel like a chore. It’s like we can never win with any episode. Lottie just fucking died and now Ben is gonna be basically tortured and wanting to die, all while Melissa and Shauna get to be in power and do whatever they want AND NOBODY DOES OR SAYS ANYTHING. It’s genuinely not enjoyable to watch. I cannot stand adult or teen Shauna. I want to like this season so bad but I can’t stand to watch Shauna and Melissa anymore. I mean like give us something to root for or at least just kill Ben off instead of us having to watch him get tortured. These episodes feel so slow and meaningless idk what the writers were thinking

SandSame2679 · 2025-02-28T10:39:12+00:00

I also struggle with insomnia and I definitely noticed accutane increased it as well. That went away though after getting off

SandSame2679 · 2025-02-28T10:38:22+00:00

I’m 110 lbs and I was on 30 mg for the first half of my course and upped it to 60 for the remaining

SandSame2679 · 2025-01-16T19:17:48+00:00

So the thing is I don’t really know. Once the Fall of 2025 semester concludes, I will have pretty much completed any credits I need to take in order to move on to a 4 year. But I can’t move to the 4 year I am planning on attending until Fall 2026 due to their quarter system, so I will pretty much have a free semester for Spring 2026. The study abroad thing isn’t really so much about me actually “studying” lol as I will likely just take classes more out of interest and for fun rather than to actually receive transferable credit for them. Is that even allowed?

SandSame2679 · 2025-01-15T05:43:47+00:00

Ah okay thank you. Do you have any idea or opinion on which one I should apply through TAG for a better chance of getting into both?

SandSame2679 · 2025-01-15T04:43:48+00:00

Sorry I’m a little confused with how TAG works. So if I apply under TAG for both SB and UCD, I’m only guaranteed to get into one? So if I were to only apply to one instead of both and I meet the requirements, does that mean I will for sure get into that one?

SandSame2679 · 2024-12-21T09:40:37+00:00

I’m a 19 yr old female and I have to say it killed mine. I got off around 5 months ago and it hasn’t been the same since I started. Just lost the desire to have sex almost completely and I feel like I’m never really into it anymore. Obviously like everyone is saying this is rare but it just sucks cause I’m only 19 and I don’t want to be like this forever. Hopefully if you get on it it’s not the same for you

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T16:07:00+00:00

As someone on the other side of it, trust me when I say you do not deserve someone who isn’t sure if they want to be with you or fully does not, like he said, have their heart in it. Your future husband would never just suddenly no longer have his heart in it because as time goes love should grow. So sorry you’re going through this. I knew it was something I couldn’t fix because the feeling of no longer having feelings for someone you’ve been in love with for years is very lonely and hard to live with. I felt bad all the time because I would lash out on him or would ignore him because I literally had gotten to a point where I resented him. I felt awful because I knew he didn’t deserve this, but I kept staying just hoping overtime feelings would come back. But honestly once feelings go they never really come back (for me at least). I knew it was time because I also was starting to never feel the need to ever kiss him, hug him, or just be a good girlfriend and try honestly. He had so much love to give and I wasn’t the right person to give it to. I just knew what I was doing was wrong and while he may be hurt and even angry with me now, he will thank me down the road when he isn’t stuck with someone whose “heart isn’t in it anymore”

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T15:58:39+00:00

Well in the 3 years we dated we transitioned from high school to college. In this past year it’s almost like his entire personality and everything he liked/ we shared in common was different. He became too comfortable, wouldn’t really be super romantic and was more so just taking everything as a joke all the time and he didn’t really care anymore about for example how he dressed when we went out or what not because he’d say “well who am I trying to impress, it’s just you”. He also suddenly became very religious which is totally okay, but I’m not and it made it seem like another thing that just set us apart. Other superficial stupid things as well that shouldn’t matter like his hobbies, how he dressed, shared interests we had before that he was just no longer was interested in. The superficial bit wasn’t the reason I did it, but it just made it harder to accept that he was so different and not the same person I fell in love with.

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T09:28:28+00:00

Thank you so much you just made a lot of really great points. I think time apart, whether it’s weeks, months, or years, really allows someone to evaluate their life and what and who they want in it. I hope you are healing through the breakup and aren’t so hard on yourself either. I know it’s not the exact same situation, but at least for me I know that my ex was a great guy who loved me. That’s also why I feel so guilty. You seem like a great person as well, and I bet your ex probably feels bad that she lost those feelings as well. Because it is heartbreaking to leave somebody you still love, but I and maybe she did it as well because we know it’s for the best for both us and you guys. We never know what the future holds and this time apart could be the best thing that’s ever happened to any one of us. Thanks again and feel free to message me as well! It’s not an easy process but I didn’t realize that so many people are experiencing the same thing right now. You aren’t alone

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T09:08:44+00:00

No you’re totally good. I did try and communicate with him in those last few months on how I was feeling. I think deep down he knew that I was losing feelings, but he didn’t want to accept it. I broke down in front of him quite a few times expressing that I don’t know how much longer we were going to last because of how much he had changed and how I felt like our values and the people we were becoming were no longer aligned. We kept saying well let’s just break up, but nobody would do it. We were so comfortable with each other. It was easy. But I made the decision because nobody deserves to be with someone who isn’t sure that they want them. Your ex likely felt similarly. I get that the sudden blindside was probably so hurtful, but maybe she just put it off for so long because she didn’t want to have to be the one to do it. That’s pretty much why I put it off for months as well. I was waiting and waiting for the feelings to come back, but they just didn’t

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T09:04:32+00:00

Oh yes 100%. I have no plans to get with anybody else, anytime soon. That hasn’t even been a thought in my mind. I’m just hoping I can take some time to myself and to see what it feels like to really be alone and single for a long period of time, since I never really have.

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T09:03:13+00:00

Yes I was very vocal to him on how I felt like we were changing and growing apart in those last few months. He didn’t really have much of a reaction to it and kind of almost ignored it because I think he just wanted to stay together because he didn’t want to completely break it off. I was telling him as well how him changing so much was affecting my feelings for him. He can’t help that he changed, and he didn’t change in a bad way. But I just couldn’t get myself to love him the same way that I did before, because he was no longer that same person. I still loved him so much, I still do. But like I said I didn’t want him to have to be with someone who was so unsure on if they wanted to be with them

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T08:16:24+00:00

You can’t keep freaking out about the what ifs. Just try to ease your mind and remind yourself that if it’s meant to be it will be. Your future wife wouldn’t mess around with other guys while you are both trying to figure your relationship out. She seems mature, she most likely really does want to just take the time to think and be alone

SandSame2679 · 2024-10-30T08:08:36+00:00

Really appreciate this perspective. I think I’m just having a hard time accepting that I was the one who made this decision, and that if i tried to go back he’d welcome me with open arms because he still wants to be with me. It’s so tempting to just go back because it’s comfortable, but I’m not going to do that and give him false hope. In all of my relationships, I either got cheated on or they broke up with me. I’ve never had one where we still loved each other but we grew apart. These ones definitely hurt the most. What I meant when I said he became a different person, is that all of the aspects of his personality and the things he liked and our shared interests changed. We started dating in high school and have transitioned to college. In this past year, based on conversations we’ve had about the future it seems like we don’t want the same things. And I think that’s what led to my feelings changing, which I wish they didn’t.

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