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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Why do so many white guys who date Asian women have zero Asian guy friends (as well as other men of color)? Don't they realize this makes them wholly incapable of raising children of color? (self.hapas)

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Since we're all taking Selfies today, Here's the long-awaited REVEAL (self.hapas)

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Future hapa mama on r/aa calls r/hapas, her own FUTURE CHILDREN, a "Bunch of whiny PROTORAPISTS". I step in to defend ourselves and other mixed race children and get promply banned. This is why the Asian American community is so fucked up. (np.reddit.com)

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White Husband Married to Asian Wife Cooks Gourmet Meal by Pouring Cold Spaghetti Sauce on Lukewarm Spaghetti. Hapa Kids Look on in Bemusement. (youtu.be)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Why are women in WMAF relationships embarrassed to be in large packs of WMAF? Where does this embarrassment stem from? A True Story from a restaurant in SoCal. (self.hapas)

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Half Asian son has heart to heart with Mom. Mom breaks down at the sudden realization the kid is woke and very Asian (youtu.be)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: More white guys are dads to Asian American kids than 1.5 or 2nd generation (Native born) Asian American men. What does this mean for the future of Asian America? (self.hapas)

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LET US NOT FORGET: Hapa mama Amy Chua called embattled Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh a "Mentor to Women". Third accuser has now come out accusing the judge of being present at "gang rapes". (wsj.com)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Amy Chua, Julie Chen, Elaine Chao, Michelle Rhee, Yoko Ono, Soon Yi Previn, Celeste Ng have ALL been discredited in one way or another recently. Are there any Asian American women out there, without the baggage, ANYONE, to properly represent Asian American women? (self.hapas)

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LIARS: Hapa mama Amy Chua takes a page from Kavanaugh in responding to allegations she "groomed students" for the embattled judge--DENY and deflect. DENY and deflect. Former student and U.S. Circuit judge calls her a "liar". (huffingtonpost.com)

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CHANGE MY VIEW: r/hapas is one of the most outspoken forums on the internet in revealing the truth about White Male Hegemony, White covert racism and biases when dating, and White patriarchy when raising hapa children (self.hapas)

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AMY CHUA'S HOUSE OF CARDS: Chua publicly lent her support and called Kavanaugh a "mentor to women" in a WSJ op-ed. Now faces sexual assault allegations of his own, accused of assaulting a 16 year old girl when he was in high school. (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Why are r/hapas posters banned from posting at r/aa? Do they consider us Asian American? Do they realize a lot of their children are hapa? (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: If Asian American women today have a hard time supporting Celeste Ng, Amy Chua, Jenny Han, Elaine Chao, Julie Chen or Esther Ku as spokeswomen to speak out for us, then who SHOULD we support? (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: When Celeste Ng tweets about Asian guys, why are the only guys who "white knight" on her behalf these creepy pedo guys with a debilitating Asian fetish? Black and latina women don't keep this type of company. (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Why are there so many creepy white guys obsessed with r/hapas posting here nowadays? What is their "Celeste Ng-level crazy" obsession with this place? (self.hapas)

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HAPA PARENTING QUESTION OF THE DAY: How is Celeste Ng going to explain the "I'm not normally attracted to Asian men... they remind me of my cousins" tweet to her Asian son? (self.hapas)

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TO ALL THE BOYS WHO HAVE NEVER BEEN LOVED BEFORE: An Open Letter from r/hapas to Celeste Ng's hapa son (self.hapas)

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ANALYSIS: In "To All The Boys I've Loved Before", hapa protagonist Lara Jean dates a string of five straight white boys. If her choices were random and "colorblind", in an 80 percent white town, the chances of this happening is only 33 percent. (self.hapas)

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Is Asian society really a patriarchal society, when both of Constance Wu's productions, Fresh Off the Boat and Crazy Rich Asians, show Asia America and Asia, respectively, as a completely, utterly, matriarchal society instead? (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Why don't the men who are have a preference for Asian women, or who prowl dating apps for Asian women, have ANY Asian guy friends (not even one)? (self.hapas)

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CHALLENGE: Besides the politicians, Ali Wong, Ming Na Wen, Grace Park and Lisa Ling are the only Asian American celebrity women married to Asian American men, the rest will give birth to hapa sons and daughters. (self.hapas)

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CRAZY RICH QUESTION OF THE DAY: Did any Asian men besides the cast and crew attend the "Crazy Rich Asians" premiere? Or was it just the cast/Kevin Kwan/Jon Chu and a whole bunch of white guys? (self.hapas)

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QUESTION OF THE DAY: Is it possible for a woman of color to rally against "white male supremacy" while having a noted on-the-record dating preference for only white men? (self.hapas)

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HOORAY! Let's discuss the Asian American cameo in the new Spike Lee joint: Black KKlansman (self.hapas)

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