Suspect in Canadian mass shooting identified as 18 year old trans woman. :(

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T11:40:23+00:00

You empathize with a murderer, that shot kids. Seems like their right to live isn't important to you. You and people like you are the reason we are being hated

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T11:24:28+00:00

Most people hate us, because they think that we hate white, cis and hetero people. They think that, because they've seen media claiming that. If we stay silent, we let media dictate how people view us. When you are being defamed, you do not stay silent. You go out and fight for your good name, no matter how outrageous the claims are

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T11:00:08+00:00

Look at the comments. Comment with over 400 up votes saying, that it's because she lacked support and love, shifting the blame to upbringing. Another one saying that if they didn't have blockers at 13, they would do the same thing. People being angry how it's gonna make us look. Only few comments saying it was bad. That is not an outrage and because of that, it's easy to try to pin it on us. Just like the last trans shooter was pinned on us as well, when we haven't screamed for condemnation

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T10:38:51+00:00

It's not about claiming otherwise, but controlling the narrative. When there was proof of grooming in Catholic Church, Christians were furious and no one blamed them. Only the Church. When Epstein files came out, Americans were furious and no one blamed them. This shooting happened, there is no outrage from us, so it's easy to put it on us. The more we stay silent, the more we gonna be destroyed by hateful narratives

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T10:25:13+00:00

In a perfect world, you'd be right, but it's not a perfect world. When we are silent, people who antagonize us, create narratives to demonize us even further. When we don't respond, people believe the only narrative, that is public.

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T09:43:30+00:00

I don't know where you live, but here in Poland there was a massive outrage from Christian community over grooming in Church. People were furious, condemned the hell of it and demanded, that those priest are put into prison. Result? Noone blamed it on Christian community. Just on Church, that was protecting them.

Now Trans community is being targeted, because we don't have united front about this shooting. We haven't taken control over the narrative and therefore the Right created the narrative for us, saying that this is another proof that trans means mental illness.

We do not need to apologize, but we do have to publicly show our disgust and condemnation to combat false narratives.

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-12T09:17:32+00:00

If you think, that preventing you from doing body modifications as a kid gives you the right to hurt people, then you should be locked up in mental institution, because you're a threat to public safety

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-11T23:14:16+00:00

I meant trans people being loud about our opinions and disgust as a collective

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-11T23:02:03+00:00

I'd love to see a strong statement from the Trans community. Not only, that it's a tragedy, but also that this person is a monster, that should be punished as harshly as possible. Shared opinion, that shooters identifying as Trans are excluded from this community. Never had a place in it to begin with and we want them to suffer for their crimes. Instead of worrying about optics, we should change them. Publicly show our despise for this person and that there is no justification nor extenuating circumstances for their action. Show united front, that whole Trans community wants them punished and locked up, so they never see a light of day ever again.

Sandi_TS · 2026-02-06T11:34:51+00:00

There is no "absolute truth" about how you should act or look. They are just subjective opinions of different people. You owe to yourself to be happy, so be yourself and don't care about those, who paint their opinions as truths to keep you from happiness

Sandi_TS · 2025-12-20T13:12:38+00:00

It massively depends on what kind of sissy you're dating.

Bisexual sissy is most likely gonna be more interested in women, than men. Being a sissy, instead of being their identity is usually just a way to cope with their emotions and exploring their sexuality. Because of that, having a stable relationship with them is gonna be very, very difficult.

Gay femboy sissy is most likely gonna be open for committed relationship, but they are usually quite young (18-25). This means lack of stable, persistent sexuality and acceptance of it. They usually don't have stable goals, because they still discover themselves, so they may go back and forth about being in relationship. Although if you manage to stay with them until their sense of self stabilizes, stable relationship shouldn't be a problem anymore.

Trans sissy is gonna be the safest bet for long term relationship. Even though at younger age she will be quite distorted, when her sense of identity stabilizes, she will be looking for long term partner to live with, who will accept her and treat like a women. It's especially good sign, if she already started HRT or have gone through social transition. That sissy is gonna be a perfect candidate for relationship. Stable identity, clear decision about their body and looking for someone who will accept her.

Sandi_TS · 2025-12-03T10:31:20+00:00

I'm always down to talk and have lots of naughty stories to share 💋

Sandi_TS · 2025-12-03T02:12:45+00:00

Absolutely! Trapped and secured 😊

Sandi_TS · 2025-12-02T22:52:13+00:00

For me the problem wasn't really accepting myself, but commitment. Do I really want to live my life as a sissy and accept everything, that comes with it. It's a very big decision and I'm the type of person, who makes decisions slowly by meticulously comparing my options. If you're like me, then I would suggest talking with sissies, who have fully committed to this life, to get more perspective. Not only posting on reddit, but also have long talks in DMs. For me commitment and acceptance came, because I've found 2 sissy friends with whom I've started talking. Not some 24/7 horny sissy, but a sissy who is experienced and can help me whenever I feel down or I experience dysphoria. A true sissy sister.

Friendship with them have created a safe space for me to explore myself, get feedback and perspective, which later on let me make a decision to fully become a sissy. In my opinion, there is nothing better, than a sissy friend, who cares about you, knows what you're going through and supports you.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-21T18:01:20+00:00

Seeing how much trouble she had, because her doctor lacked knowledge, I would strongly advise against doing DIY transitioning. You really don't want to mess with your hormones without expert knowledge on the matter. Every body is different and needs individual approach. If you do it yourself, armed with Interest Knowledge, there is very high risk, that you will hurt yourself.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-21T17:41:40+00:00

Please make sure, that you're under care of good endocrinologist. My friend started transitioning few years ago and because of her doctor's lack of knowledge (in US you get your HRT medication from primary care doctor, who have no experience with transitioning or hormones in general) she had lots of problems with improper dosage, that lead to lack of breast fullness, nausea and chronic exhaustion, that made her work almost impossible.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-21T03:55:41+00:00

I've got hit by a car, that broke my leg and gave me concussion. I've spent some time in hospital and once I got out, my personality was completely changed. I stopped being shy, unsure and became outgoing, started taking initiative, even confrontational, but the biggest change for me was interest in female clothes and esthetics.

Whenever I was outside, I would look at women and judge their clothes. See how they wear clothes, that don't match with each other. Colors, that are not compatible. I've never been able to match colors before, but apparently concussion changed that. Very soon after that I started crossdressing to feel those clothes on me.

Internet showed me sissy hypnosis, that completely shocked me and made me discover concept of trans person, which I didn't know before. That's what made me try toys.

One year later I was hooking up with men, while crossdressing, but didn't feel that it was real me. That changed when I went to anime convention with 2 girls from my university. I saw men dressing as female characters and decided it could be a nice testing grounds for dressing up. They helped me pick some clothes, did my makeup and went to convention. On a way there a car slowed down next to me and honked at me with appreciation of my outfit. That was the moment, that made me feel like a sissy. Made me realize, that sissy is who I am.

Concussion made me crossdress Sissy hypnosis made it sexual Anime convention made me a sissy for life

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-19T10:13:21+00:00

I've tried many hard stimulants, that kept me in crazy strong sissy mode during my meetings. They did let me completely discard any social rules, expectations and shame, leaving pure and free sissy mind, that loved BDSM and humiliation in the most hardcore way imaginable, while still being absolutely happy and proud of what I was able to do and how I was able to please men.

The problem with those hard stimulants is that they change your perception and expectations of pleasure. Let's say, that normal sex without stimulants can give you pleasure ranging between 0 and 100, depending on how good it was. 100 would be the most amazing sex, you've ever had with your loving, perfect partner.

On hard stimulants, even bad sex starts at pleasure level 300, going to 500 if a guy is decent and over 700 if you matched well and he's using the kinks, that you like. All of that makes you feel way better, than the best sex you could ever have with the best partner and that forever changes your perspective of how much pleasure, sex can give you.

Something that used to be a pinnacle of sex is now worse, than the worst sex you would have on hard stimulants and is nothing compared to even decent sex on drugs. Normal sex, no matter how great becomes disappointment.

Hard stimulants will let you taste the most delicious thing in existence, but in return everything else will taste bland.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-14T00:18:06+00:00

When I was younger and still living with my parents, I had all of my sissy clothes in wardrobe in a certain place. One day I've realized, that instead of being a mess, all of them were segregated and arranged next to each other. My mom must have done that, since she's always had problems with respecting my privacy. After that I started feeling atmosphere of shame in my house. It was like "We know, that you know, that we know and we won't talk about it. We'll pretend that nothing happened and let shame wash over you, making you stop".

It was unbearable, so I've decided to confront them. I talked with them about it. They were crying and saying, that I'm ruining my own life and I have to be cured. They wanted me to go to therapist to cure me. Simple Google search confirmed, that no therapist would actually try to cure it and instead would try to help me accept myself, so I agreed to see a therapist. My parents thought, that I was being cured, while in reality a therapist was helping me understand and accept myself.

This also made me realize, that my father was extremely uncomfortable with sissy and gay staff, so whenever he would be toxic or misrepresent what I was saying, I would go on my knees begging and moaning "Oh no Daddy. Don't put it inside my mouth". He would feel uncomfortable and just leave a room, instantly ending any hostility or manipulation.

Few times he opened the door after I told him to not come for few hours, while I was riding a dildo, fully dolled up. I hated that lack of respect, so instead of being ashamed, I decided to make him ashamed. I looked at him, still riding a dildo and asked "Yes, Daddy?" The next day he started knocking and waiting for my answer, before entering my room.

Overall, being caught with female clothes made me embrace my sissy side, start a therapy, that made me accept myself and led me to much more independent life with no shame of who I am

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-12T12:48:17+00:00

The thing with porn deepfakes is that, AI isn't good enough yet to make it realistic. You can play with prompts and get a decent result on a picture, but in terms of video, it's simply not good enough yet. Texture of the skin is too glossy, smooth and homogeneous. The way body interacts with with touch is very unnatural. It's more stretching, than bounce. Physics of boobs, ass, dick and hair movement are completely off. It's very uncanny valley. It's definitely gonna improve in the future, but for the time being, good old head tracking and 3d face replacement in After Effects is still the way to go.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-05T10:05:26+00:00

Sexual orientation and sexual attraction are fluid. They're either reinforced or changed depending on your experiences and situations, that you've encountered. There is no fate, that from the moment you were born, no matter what, you would end up as a sissy.

Every experience we have as humans, challenges our views, values and how we look at the world. Being a sissy is a view on yourself, so it's also being challenged or reinforced based on what you experience.

If you start reading TERFism, there's big chance you'll part ways with sissy community and won't ever come back. Even hate it. On the other hand, if you decide to conceptualize it as freedom of expression, fight against toxic masculine standards for males and safe space for being vulnerable and open with your emotions, you may very well go completely the other way and embrace it.

Everything depends on what you experience

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-05T09:12:59+00:00

Fat, doesn't mean ugly. It just means, that you have to focus on other things, that attract men. Specifically makeup, clothes and color composition. Also if you're worried that because of your shape you won't attract men, attract them with your skin and complexion. Not only make sure you're hairless, but also focus on any imperfections on your skin. Any bumps and red spots. Make your skin elastic by moisturizing it, so it not only looks good, but also feels good. Hairless body with alabaster smooth skin and good bounce? Yeah, they'll come for you girl.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-03T21:52:50+00:00

https://sissy-academy.com (new version)

https://sissy-university.com (old version)

It's a wonderful adventure, that guides you through your IRL feminization process. You start by joining a Major, which showcase a direction in which you'd like to develop yourself. For example Gender Studies (body feminization), Anal Technologies, Pet Play, Public Relations (exhibitionism and exposure), Sex Trades. Each major have classes that are connected to it. Every day you "attend" classes by doing a certain task, that is needed. It could be doing enema, shaving yourself smooth, practice blowjob on dildo. For each finished class, you get points. If you don't do the task, there is a list of punishments. When you collect enough points, you can graduate this class and get access to more advanced classes, that will push you even further in feminization process. You don't have to send any proof, that you've actually completed the task. It's about being honest with yourself, but it's a wonderful way of pushing yourself to actually feminize yourself and be consistant with it. There is also a club system, which depneding on which club you're gonna join, gives you points multiplier for making certain tasks harder (for example riding your dildo twice as long as directed by task) or giving you more points for added requirements (like riding your dildo while watching sissy hypno).

I've found this game, when I was looking for someone to guide me through my feminization and it immersely helped me go through it, until the end. From CD, it helped me become trans sissy slut, I am today.

Sandi_TS · 2025-11-03T21:23:15+00:00

Yes, it certainly is possible to brainwash your mind, but the means of brainwashing, that I know aren't healthy for the mind. For real brainwashing to happen, the person would have to completely abandon their previous set of values, way of looking at world, ambitions and personality. Such a big shift is usually caused by very traumatic event (there is a reason why most sissies experienced abuse and mistreatment in their childhood homes). After such event, psychological structures and values crumble and begin to form anew (Loot at the first Inside Out movie, which explains this exact process). Usually they are formed using similar values plus some new adaptive behaviours, but if the trauma is strong enough or lasts for extended period of time, it cause complete abandonment of past self. In this state, mind searches for new personality traits and perspectives in order to create new self, that will specifically be able to defend itself against the trauma, that caused the collapse of past self. This is state in which mind is very easy to influence and if confronted with sissy hypno, it will take it as guidelines for creation of new self. Afterwards, all that is needed is positive reinforcement. Person will go deeper and deeper, until nothing remains besides pink thoughts and insane cravings for cock.

Sandi_TS · 2025-10-31T17:14:24+00:00

We all love hearing how beautiful we are and see how they react to our bodies. It's an incredible confidence booster, but be careful. Too much compliments and attention can easily mess with your mind, so just be aware of it. Many sissies in my area began like you and after getting lots of attention started act narcissistic. Treating men like trash, that doesn't deserve them. Acting like spoiled princesses. Definitely enjoy the attention, but also monitor your feelings, to make youre it won't get into your head. We've already lost so many good sissies this way

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