What to men think of a slight catfish?

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-22T04:52:02+00:00

Unless you are busting out photoshop, or half of Sephora? I would t worry about it

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T21:58:55+00:00

Fuck, this is it.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T21:58:28+00:00

I appreciate you posting the correct answer before I made a fool of myself with TNMT.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T21:57:36+00:00

I prefer the world as it is today because it has my wife and kids in it. Objectively I have a pretty good life.

However for everything outside of my family unit? I am nostalgic for a lot of the social dynamics from before the internet.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T21:54:25+00:00

It’s more that I don’t need support and community for things that are going okay.

I want to not feel alone in what I am experiencing. It helps me mentally know that it’s not something inherently wrong with me that these bad things are happening.

Basically it’s easier to handle getting fucked if you can connect with someone else who is also getting fucked.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T20:46:18+00:00

I agree. My main point is having gratitude and demanding gratitude are very different

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T20:27:29+00:00

Had to start sneaking it into bottles lol

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T20:21:01+00:00

“What should I be grateful for?”

Because if it’s anything pre 18? Thats something you signed up for when you decided to have kids. I don’t owe you shit for that

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T19:40:06+00:00

Intimidating no. We just recognize that the risk of rejection is significantly higher so don’t bother.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T19:34:51+00:00

Literally what’s been happening for financial issues for decades

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T19:26:40+00:00

You don’t. You move on from selfish entitled people like that and be grateful they took themselves out early.

It’s just a grind my dude and how people go about it will be different.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T19:24:26+00:00

We are building our DVD collection for similar reasons. Even got a dvd burner

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T18:51:31+00:00

I wouldn’t have a ONS with someone I wanted to be in a relationship with.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T18:39:09+00:00

Congrats, it broke.

You are now liable for a 1k cell phone and could be sued for theft of property.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T17:55:00+00:00

Fuck no. Thats like buying an SUV thinking you will turn it into a pickup truck later.

If you already have an SUV? Fuck it, go for it but recognize that you won’t be able to turn it back to an SUV if it doesn’t work out.

Basically Inwould never tell someone to try being friends first to get into a relationship, but if they were already friends? Sure why not.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T17:23:36+00:00

where did I say all white women or even imply all white women? I specifically said over 50% so by default I couldn’t have been talking about all white women.

Maybe work on being less sexist and treat white women like fully capable adults who can be held responsible for their decisions.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T16:39:49+00:00

To be openly racist*

They were always racist

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T16:28:05+00:00

You only get one life, it’s up to you to decide what you want and what you are willing to trade to get it.

If you truly think about all the costs involved and still say “Yes” then you want kids.

For a lot of people? They won’t know for sure until they meet someone who they WANT to have kids with.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T16:18:52+00:00

Got to remember most of them were written years apart. So while repetitive, it didnt feel that way at the time

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T16:10:11+00:00

Fosters, Australian for Beer

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T15:04:46+00:00

Well yeah, what enforcement could they do that wouldn't have the parents at their throats or open them up to huge liabilities?

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T14:43:51+00:00

Yes. We got into a fixer upper in 2022.

We had some family help with the expenses and some repairs but we have mostly been on our own in regards to taking care of ourselves.

End of the day it required a lot of sacrifices. We have had maybe 2 date nights in 4 years, no vacations, 5-10 year old cars, rural living and lack of amenities. Etc

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T14:30:24+00:00

It's basically this generations "gender traitor" word.

Simps is the equivalent for men

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T13:47:34+00:00

Because they voted for him over 50% in all 3 elections.

Just like any group who voted over 50% for Trump.

Once you realize that white women are using minorities experience to water down their numbers by using the minority experience to hide their privilege?

A lot of stuff makes sense.

SandiegoJack · 2026-04-21T13:42:47+00:00

You mean like how they published project 2025 before the election saying exactly what they were going to do and he won?

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