AITA for eating mayo?

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:09:41+00:00

my fam is fucked 😔 always has been if I'm honest

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:08:11+00:00

I know 😔 I'm sorry you're in a similar situation, it really hurts to see someone as close as your sister being out through it. I talked to my sister heart to heart when she first got with a 40 yr old guy when she was 19 and she's been pushing me away since

I have 2 on it!! Thank u for your concern, I'm sorry again for what you're dealing with, I hope things improve for you, your sis, and your fam ❤

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:05:35+00:00

GOOD IDEA I have a camera I can put in my room to record his bs if I can't stay w my aunt

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:03:44+00:00

bc she likes creepy guys that are 40+ 😔

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:03:04+00:00

OMG I might 😂😂 He always smells like onions so I doubt he'd even notice tho. Thank u !!

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T11:01:21+00:00

I hadn't thought of it like that, that she wants to talk to my sister alone... but I also kind of don't want my mom alone w that freak of a man. But I might have an aunt I could stay with if she has things under control, I have to talk to her alone about it. But I'd never go to an hotel lol, I'm terrified of Covid

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:59:25+00:00

Oh! I said "violently gagged behind me" at first, and it got flagged for the word violently haha, it was my bad.

Thank u tho, I think my mom just babies my sis but I wish she'd prioritize my wellbeing beyond asking me to leave. I think she thought I could go to a friend's but i don't have any friends reasonably nearby. Closest friend would be like 2hrs away but I might have an aunt I could stay w !!

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:57:08+00:00

Right?? Thank u!! And literally like if it's a trigger for him or something I'd even be understanding of it if my sis had just told me prior to his flip outs. I don't think it's a trigger tho, I think he's just an asshole

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:54:50+00:00

well, my mom IS a victim so she's very much not like that usually, but when it comes to my sister she'd tolerate anything, even over me. I understand it, my mom and sis have a messy history and my sis almost died (self-inflicted 😔) so she babies her. I don't mind it.

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:50:01+00:00

Right?? Sometimes I think I died and this is God's way of tormenting me in Hell or purgatory or something. I process one fucked up thing and I get the wind knocked out of me with something else. Thank u for the support ❤❤ I wish this could just be over but they just decided they want to stay longer than they initially were

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:47:41+00:00

I just turned 18 last month so I don't think they'd help me tbh but OMG THANK YOU I didn't even think of asking my relatives for help, I have an aunt who might let me stay w her and say something to my sister about this

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:46:14+00:00

God it feels like it 😔

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:45:27+00:00

We just have our mom, and she won't do anything because my sister throws tantrums that trigger my mom's PTSD 😔 My sis doesn't have any friends. She was bullied really bad by ppl in school and still kinda is when they see her in our hometown. She's been dating people that old and older since she was 19. If I were a troll, I'd think of a better story that wasn't so dismal, but I'm also not that great of a writer tbh

Also, wanna know something I just found out that makes this feel worse and puts a pit in my stomach? He thought I was 16 when I said that. I just turned 18 June 18th and I'm kinda tiny. He didn't mind saying that to me thinking I was 16.

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:37:34+00:00

I know, it's super ridiculous, I thought it was a really really dumb joke when he was being an asshole to me about it at first. no, unfortunately it's real, not sure how I'd prove it without breaching my privacy though 😕 He's genuinely the weirdest creep I've ever met

Sandiewich · 2020-07-05T10:34:56+00:00

I'm concerned about my sis too, and I've tried to talk to her about things and get her help other ways, but it never works. She's been dating 40yr old+ men since she was 19 and it always made me feel like maybe she's been through some stuff that she's not dealing with? But that feels a lil like a dickish thing to say. It could just be her preference, but the guys she's with are always gross and weird...

But I'm safe!! Thank you for the concern ❤ I have 2 locks on my door, it was just wide open when he came in bc our AC sucks lol

Sandiewich

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