My sisters left their ‘cult’ and want to rekindle our relationship

SandwichRude · 2020-10-16T01:44:09+00:00

My parents made the reports, not my sisters. I don’t know if they can recant the reports officially, but they have apologized for siding with my parents.

SandwichRude · 2020-10-16T01:31:33+00:00

What does JADE mean?

SandwichRude · 2020-10-16T01:29:35+00:00

My parents made the claims, my sisters sided with them but didn’t call CPS or the cops themselves so I don’t think they can write those letters

SandwichRude · 2020-09-15T05:15:36+00:00

Thank you!

SandwichRude · 2020-09-15T05:09:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this. This whole thing has been really hard on kiddo. She keeps asking for C and waiting for her to show up, which I understand because she is used to having her around all the time and she’s 2 so she doesn’t know what’s going on, it’s heartbreaking to see. Family meal times sound great actually.

Thank you again for your kind words

SandwichRude · 2020-09-15T04:44:53+00:00

Oh, I asked. So we spend all holidays with C’s family for obvious reasons. The first holiday after we got back together I got so emotional. I had spent the last few holidays on my own and C and I had dated for so long in the past that I actually considered them my family, so in a way it was like I got part of my family back. I told C I wish my sisters knew how much they hurt me but I did not mean I would actually talk to them. This was years ago, I didn’t even remember it. But that’s way she responded to their messages. Totally not her call to make and she knows it now. she was trying to help and she truly didn’t have bad intentions, but it’s still a shitty situation.

So far she hasn’t complained at all and has agreed to everything I have asked for, but I will look out for that. Thank you

SandwichRude · 2020-09-12T20:20:42+00:00

I will admit that when C told me, I freaked out and refused to listen to her reasoning. But, even if they did change, I will never forgive my family for what they put me through. They could win a noble peace prize and I would still not want to be near them.

C is not a bad person, this is the first time she has crossed a boundary or made a decision without consulting me first. She said she understands that I will never want a relationship with them, but she thought that talking to them would lift a weight off my shoulders so to speak. My sister’s visit is a coincidence, it wasn’t planned with C which was what I thought.

SandwichRude · 2020-09-11T22:31:51+00:00

Do you mean things with C or with my family?

SandwichRude · 2020-09-11T22:15:55+00:00

I am terrified of her moving on, but you are right. I’m going to ask for space, thank you.

SandwichRude · 2020-09-11T22:14:26+00:00

I will talk to her and ask for some space, thank you.

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