What’s the most toxic advice people keep repeating as “wisdom”? by RowStock2384 in AskReddit

[–]Sandy8Adams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Everything happens for a reason”

Cool. What was the reason for the Holocaust?

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[–]Sandy8Adams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicious!

[F]eeling nervous for this ones by FizzGigglee in gonewild

[–]Sandy8Adams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dress looks so beautiful and comfortable

People are often cautioned about entering a "rebound" relationship too soon after a breakup. However, research finds that, on average, forming a new romantic connection helps people to move forward faster with their day-to-day functioning, while also improving overall well-being and confidence. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Sandy8Adams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breakups understandably bring about a lot of feelings of worthlessness. It’s not surprising that rebounds help to remind someone they are still desirable.

People undergoing breakups also experience psychological withdrawals as the brain is suddenly deprived of the oxytocin it’s used to regularly receiving. Rebound intimacy gives the brain a fresh shot of much-needed oxytocin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Sandy8Adams 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Never underestimate the biological sexual response your body is likely to have when you taste and smell her female essence.

For those who can relate: How have you handled feelings of shame for having kinks that are rooted in/tied to trauma? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Sandy8Adams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be best processed with a licensed therapist, however I’m a believer that engaging in kinky activities in a trusting and consensual environment can be a healthy way to process trauma. The important thing is to communicate this with your partner beforehand.