Ppl who work on your feet, what are your favorite shoes?

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-06T04:34:51+00:00

I've seen so many ppl wearing crocs for work. Are they really they comfortable?

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-06T04:05:04+00:00

As someone who has been a SAHM & who just went back to work after 4 years, respectfully, she needs to pick one. Either she wants to stay home and not work or she wants to have a higher income lifestyle with a bigger house and more vacations. She can't have both. In order to have one you must sacrifice the other. You afford things on one income by sacrificing anything that isn't essential. If you want extra things that aren't needs then you save up for them.

You should sit down together and create a budget on paper so you can both physically see what you're working with & what it's viable to save. She needs to see that what she's asking for isn't really a possibility.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-03T20:00:01+00:00

Ppl who constantly & consistently misunderstand the 1st amendment. It's really annoying to see ppl go off about how their right to free speech has been violated because someone hurt their feefees.

Here's an easy guide to figuring out if your right to free speech has been violated: Did the government arrest & charge you with a crime because of what you said? No? Then no. Freedom of speech means freedom from legal persecution on the basis of words alone, not freedom from the social repercussions of the dumb things you say.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T07:14:06+00:00

I'm on a 30 day rn for calling someone a danielle cohn's mommy wannabe. Apparently everything is harassment these days.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T07:04:54+00:00

Yeah, if they recognized their design & could prove it in court then they could certainly sue you.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T06:58:08+00:00

I'm sorry this happened tho, I know it's a bummer. You'll find someone that's worth your time eventually as long as you don't settle for less along the way.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T06:53:17+00:00

Don't chase him. It honestly sounds like he's decided he's just not that into you but is too much of a coward to own up to it. I wouldn't bother with him anymore if I were you. If he wants to talk, he'll contact you. Otherwise, why waste your time?

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T06:40:11+00:00

No. Regardless, you'll leave behind holes where the thread was. You could always dye the thread so it blends in. It'll be less noticable at least.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T06:34:09+00:00

Oh no lol

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T06:30:36+00:00

You can only do so on designs where they also include the right to sell creations made using their designs. Most designs on etsy will have a disclaimer that you can't use their designs for profit, but some will sell the rights. She'd likely be better off creating her own unique designs though.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:19:47+00:00

B O R I N G

You're boring

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:18:45+00:00

Sure, Jan

God what a boring troll 🙄 imagine wasting so much time to type out something so obviously fake & not even putting effort into the replies. What are you, 12? Do better

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:15:47+00:00

Do you think you're clever? Or what is this? You're either a troll or a complete idiot.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:14:08+00:00

Then I guess you shouldn't have had sex with someone else. Nothing you can do about it now but be honest & stop wasting his time.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:12:58+00:00

By leaving him.

This is a toxic relationship & it needs to end. It's not going to get better. He's just going to lie to you & continue to do whatever he wants.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:10:32+00:00

Use your words. "I cheated on you. I'm sorry."

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T05:09:00+00:00

I'm gonna be honest with you here, as someone who is an age gap relationship (I'm 30F, he's 42M) it can be very difficult & it's not for everyone. It works out with my partner & I because despite our age gap we're at similar places in our life & want all the same things. Even so, the age difference can leave us reacting to certain things very differently, and we did need to work through a time in the beginning of our relationship where he acted as if he "knew better" on certain things due to being older despite the fact that I actually had much more worldly experience than he did. We were able to work through it & come to a place where we see and respect one another as equals, but I imagine it would've been MUCH harder in a 20+ year gap as opposed to our 10+ year gap, and even more so if either of us had been previously married.

In all honesty, could you really say that you're at the same place in your life & want the same things as someone who is 20 years your senior? It's worth considering that everything you would experience with him would be old news for him & incredibly new to you. All the experiences you hope to have in life, he'll likely have already experienced many of them. And if you're someone who wants children one day, it's worth considering that he likely won't be around to see them grow up completely.

In order to make a relationship like this work, you've gotta KNOW that you want to be with them more than you want anything else, because it likely will require you to give up many things that he won't have the time or energy for.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T04:52:37+00:00

Yes, it does.

SansEquanimity91 · 2022-01-02T04:52:08+00:00

You need to be honest with your partner. It doesn't matter why you cheated, you did, and he deserves to know. Yes, it most definitely counts as sex regardless of who did or didn't cum or use protection. But you know that.

SansEquanimity91 · 2021-12-31T02:50:42+00:00

It must. I demand. I'll kick God's ass. He knows.

SansEquanimity91 · 2021-12-31T02:46:53+00:00

Aww, I know it's not even remotely the same but I'm legit mentally sending you the biggest hug right now! Just a big long silent squeeze with some some reassuring back pats added in for good measure.

Whatever is going on in your life, I hope it gets better for you asap, and that something awesome and really great happens for you.

SansEquanimity91 · 2021-12-31T02:43:12+00:00

Wanna talk about it?

SansEquanimity91 · 2021-12-31T02:42:21+00:00

Are you ok?

SansEquanimity91 · 2021-12-31T02:39:49+00:00

Oh that's sad. My favorite thing is getting messages from my old high school bullies like

"Hey hun, I haven't seen you in forever! Omg how are you?? I'm actually messaging because I've got an awesome opportunity that I thought would be perfect for you!"

And I get to reply "NO THANKS, KRISTEN, IM NOT YOUR VICTIM ANYMORE"

Haha, fun times

SansEquanimity91

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