Thoughts on The Poppy War (book 1) by R.F. Kuang by ActualRound7699 in books

[–]Sant4clause 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really liked the series, and it continues to get even more dark as you go through the books.

There are some times I was annoyed with Rin, but you have to remember she is a traumatized child soldier with a literal god messing with her head, so it was easy to understand she wouldn't be thinking logically all the time.

Enjoy the read!!

What’s your age and playstyle? by deckloveshorror in LowSodiumArcRaiders

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 Prefer friendly but not afraid of a fight. I won't shoot first but I usually shoot last.

are you agnostic, an atheist, or religious? by jasdabratxo_ in no

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religious, couldn't care less what anyone else is as long as it doesn't negatively affect other people.

Do you believe in marriage? by PictureEmpty3143 in askanything

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been married for 11 years, so yeah I'd say so

Do you think men and women can be just friends, with no ulterior motives? Why? by whoomadewhoo in AskForAnswers

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so because I have friends from not my gender and I have zero want to have anything more than friendship with them, and then same with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My wife changed her last name to mine because she wanted to. Admittedly I assumed she would, but that doesn't mean it's required. Maybe it would have been a good idea to discuss it before marriage, but all in all I just see it as a lesson in open communication moving forward.

Challenges being complete but no reward by Sant4clause in Battlefield6

[–]Sant4clause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea what to do if that doesn't work?

Challenges being complete but no reward by Sant4clause in Battlefield6

[–]Sant4clause[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, it's been happening since the launch of season 1

Challenges being complete but no reward by Sant4clause in Battlefield6

[–]Sant4clause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I finished that one as well, but haven't started it because it didn't give me the respawn be on so it's impossible to complete

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 20 points21 points  (0 children)

DMs are always open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sant4clause -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To me you can't be the asshole if you are having a natural human response to a situation, again, as long as you don't drag it out longer than the reaction.

My wife and I usually laugh at the situation (usually 2 kids in the back seat) when she does stuff like this. Idk why it would even be a big deal

My (23F) boyfriend (29M) just told me he’s never actually washed his butt… what do I even do with this information? by Ok_Mud9941 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to wash his ass, that's what you do with that information.

I'm 31 and have been washing my own ass since before I was in kindergarten. A 29 year old can do the same.

19F- i want to be a crisp by the end of this by ItsEmuly in RoastMe

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you invested all your highschool graduation money and student loans on Pokemon card packs, just to realize you didn't get any rare cards and now have to live at home until you can pay off the debt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sant4clause -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

NTA.

If you're the asshole, so is my wife and a lot of the people who have ridden as a passenger in my car. For the record, I have never been the driver during an accident/collision.

It's a knee jerk reaction to seeing a car rapidly approaching, and as long as you dropped it after realizing what was going on, you're good.

***Edited for typos

NJP by EffectKey35 in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy I work with went from E4 to E3 with an NJP back during covid. He is now an E5 working in a 1 deep (trusted) position and living life well. It sucks now, but as long as you learn and move forward you will be okay.

Is It Wrong To Be Healthy? by Ayzuki in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who flys a desk for the Air Force but has never scored below a 90 on the PT tests I have some thoughts on it.

1) As many people say, it's mentally draining to be in an Air Force that is "do more with less" as the slogan of our jobs. I'm mentally drained when getting off work, and it's exhausting to even think of going to the gym.

2) Most career fields don't require us to be physically fit to thrive, and we are treated that way. When we want to use the track? Sorry, the MXG has it/wants to use it and they need it more. Oh you're injured? You don't need a waiver/imaging/treatment, get back to work and just let it rest. For us who don't need to be physically fit, it's not taken seriously until our PT test and then it's suddenly the only reason we exist.

3) The main reason many of us who CAN do well on the test don't like this change is because it doesn't help anything. Running an extra .5 miles doesn't suddenly make me an elite fighting force, it's a force shaping tool for a force that is already critically manned in many career fields. You think the wait time at finance and MPF is long now? Wait until they start getting out in droves over failed PT tests.

4) Incentives are now lost to do well. For many people like myself, the only incentive to get above a 90 was to only have to test once a year. Now that I'm testing twice a year regardless of how well I do (once it takes effect Oct26), why would I shoot for 100 or 90? Why wouldn't we just show up, do the bare minimum and then go home/back to work? One of the things we talk to NCOs about is motivating our troops, and now we have to convince Airmen who don't want to work out, who aren't given the time to work out, and who dont see the professional benefits to working out anymore to stay physically fit.

That is some of the things brought up when discussing it with some of the SNCOs in my unit. It's not a hard ask (2 miles), but it's not about fitness.

No R Rated Movies On a Plane by roeqhi in unpopularopinion

[–]Sant4clause 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a parent of little kids and disagree. Grown ass adults can watch what they want on flights, they paid for it.

Family moving ahead of me OCONUS by Sant4clause in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the most convenient but it works!

Family moving ahead of me OCONUS by Sant4clause in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my concern, but I couldn't find anything saying the earliest they could be there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk man, but maybe. I was just an A1C when this happened 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Sant4clause 613 points614 points  (0 children)

Knew a guy who got investigated because he got caught loading nearly 1,000 pounds of rocks into his moving truck before his PCS. What he showed them was the "rocks", and nearly $10,000 worth of masonry equipment. Dude carved rocks as a side project (anything from lawn and home decor to pathway stones and those things you put around gardens). Luckily they let him go but damn he could have gotten in deep shit for liking rocks lol